A bayside wedding venue located on Harbor Island in San Diego, Tom Ham’s Lighthouse features breathtaking views of the San Diego Bay, Coronado Bridge and downtown skyline. With amazing event spaces, both indoor and outdoor, this venue can host your ceremony, reception and/or rehearsal dinner.
Facilities and Capacity
With three unique private rooms and the recent addition of an outdoor site for your incredible ceremony, you will have many options for the day. The first is the California Room, which offers a built-in bar, dance floor and private wrap-around patio over the bay for a maximum of 230 guests. For a smaller wedding with 80 guests or less, the Harbor View Room is the ideal choice. The Private Dining Room is great for groups of 15-40, typically used for a rehearsal dinner. All options provide absolutely stunning views for a picturesque wedding backdrop. The outdoor ceremony site, with a beautiful art piece and scenic view, can hold 230 guests.
We include all the tables, napkins and table linens, gold chiavari chairs, silverware/china, glassware, dance-floor, and onsite parking. The set-up and teardown of white patio chairs, water station, aisle runner and extra necessary tables for the ceremony site is included. All food and beverage is provided in-house.
Recommended by 92% of couples
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Liezel · Married on 11/22/2017
Brooke and Perla were extremely helpful from the start! After we viewed the ceremony site and reception rooms, we knew this would be the perfect setting for an outdoor fall wedding in San Diego and we couldn't have been more pleased! Brooke and Perla answered any questions I had and were always very responsive throughout the entire process. Everything that Tom Ham's provides for the ceremony site and banquet halls took the stress out of finding a vendor for chairs/tables. Everyone loved the food during dinner and cocktail hour and the value for what you get was worth the price. The staff (bartenders and banquet staff) were also outstanding! We have already recommended this venue to another bride!
Sarah · Married on 02/23/2019
The most beautiful View in San Diego!!
This is the most beautiful wedding venue. We received so many compliments on how nice the ceremony and reception space was. Brooke and her team are awesome and super responsive. Even random one-off questions about table cloths and high chairs, etc. were all answered quickly and in a positive manner. We had the best experience and are so thankful we found Tom Ham's. A few of our guests said it was the best food they have ever had at a wedding and several told our parents it was the nicest wedding they had been to. We did centerpieces and up-lights and other than that the venue is the decoration, so its perfect for those who don't have a huge decoration budget or want a more classic feel.
Haley · Married on 07/14/2018
All of our guests remarked how fantastic the food was, most saying it rivaled the best they've ever had for a wedding. On top of that, the drinks were great, the staff was very attentive, and of course, the views were spectacular.
If you're considering having your ceremony and/or reception at Tom Ham's, don't think twice!
What a beautiful venue! All the photographers here at Spotlight Studios just can't help but be in love with the classic nautical feel! There is so much splendor, with the sweeping landscape and panoramic views of the ocean. We recommend this place for anyone planning their next big event!
I LOVE T.H.L - Great Venue for a very personal and intimate event. Love the View of San Diego and the food is always outstanding. The Staff is always on their toes and ready to jump in a help. Keep up the great work!