A bayside wedding venue located on Harbor Island in San Diego, Tom Ham’s Lighthouse features breathtaking views of the San Diego Bay, Coronado Bridge and downtown skyline. With amazing event spaces, both indoor and outdoor, this venue can host your ceremony, reception and/or rehearsal dinner.
Facilities and Capacity
With three unique private rooms and the recent addition of an outdoor site for your incredible ceremony, you will have many options for the day. The first is the California Room, which offers a built-in bar, dance floor and private wrap-around patio over the bay for a maximum of 230 guests. For a smaller wedding with 80 guests or less, the Harbor View Room is the ideal choice. The Private Dining Room is great for groups of 15-40, typically used for a rehearsal dinner. All options provide absolutely stunning views for a picturesque wedding backdrop. The outdoor ceremony site, with a beautiful art piece and scenic view, can hold 230 guests.
We include all the tables, napkins and table linens, gold chiavari chairs, silverware/china, glassware, dance-floor, and onsite parking. The set-up and teardown of white patio chairs, water station, aisle runner and extra necessary tables for the ceremony site is included. All food and beverage is provided in-house.
Recommended by 92% of couples
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Sarah · Married on 02/23/2019
The most beautiful View in San Diego!!
This is the most beautiful wedding venue. We received so many compliments on how nice the ceremony and reception space was. Brooke and her team are awesome and super responsive. Even random one-off questions about table cloths and high chairs, etc. were all answered quickly and in a positive manner. We had the best experience and are so thankful we found Tom Ham's. A few of our guests said it was the best food they have ever had at a wedding and several told our parents it was the nicest wedding they had been to. We did centerpieces and up-lights and other than that the venue is the decoration, so its perfect for those who don't have a huge decoration budget or want a more classic feel.Sent on 03/18/2019
Zachariah T Overmyer · Getting married on 10/16/2020
Perfect Venue, Extreme Professionalism
Brooke @ Tom Ham's Lighthouse is AMAZING. She was friendly, responsive and extremely helpful. This venue is so affordable with breathtaking views and incredible food options. After booking this venue, I'm so excited for our special day!Sent on 04/26/2019
Abigail · Married on 01/19/2019
Perfect reception location and food!
My husband and I actually met at Tom Ham's years ago and his family has had many events here. Even after the remodel I was very please with their service and professionalism. The wedding coordinator team was very prompt in responding and I highly recommend the venue. So beautiful!Sent on 03/26/2019
What a beautiful venue! All the photographers here at Spotlight Studios just can't help but be in love with the classic nautical feel! There is so much splendor, with the sweeping landscape and panoramic views of the ocean. We recommend this place for anyone planning their next big event!
I LOVE T.H.L - Great Venue for a very personal and intimate event. Love the View of San Diego and the food is always outstanding. The Staff is always on their toes and ready to jump in a help. Keep up the great work!