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About

I am the part-time Rabbi of Congregation B'nai Jeshurun of Staten Island (a
Conservative Jewish synagogue) and work as a spiritual counselor for
the Visiting Nurse Service of New York Hospice and Palliative Care. I
reside on the Upper West Side of Manhattan with my lovely wife Dora. I
was raised Orthodox, and was ordained in Yeshiva Collegial Machane
Menachem in Petropolis, Brazil.

I offer pre-wedding counseling to help you build a solid foundation
for your next stage together. The counseling is primarily focused on
communication techniques, emotional boundaries, learning to share
responsibilities in an equitable way, building a Jewish home, managing
expectations for the wedding and after the wedding. In addition, I
will work with you to plan a beautiful, seamless authentically Jewish
wedding ceremony. I will help you with the processing of your marriage
license, supervision of the creation and signing of the ketubah document, review of the
rings to adhere to Jewish law, and a dvar torah/reflection to make the
ceremony more meaningful.

I pride myself on providing sensitivity to your unique needs as
individuals and a couple. I also, offer an authentic feel to your
service with recitation in both Hebrew and English (and throw in a few
Yiddish expressions for your Bubby) with explanations appropriate to
the audience. When appropriate I like to throw a few jokes in to
lighten the mood.


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Frequently asked questions

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$295

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$100

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling
Bilingual

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Jewish
No Denomination

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.
30-60 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

NJ
NY

What languages do you speak?

English
Hebrew
Portuguese

Reviews of Rabbi Sam Kastel

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Leigh Sent on 01/28/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful!

Rabbi Sam was so great to work with. Could not recommend him enough. We met with him a few times before the ceremony and really went over the values of marriage and he took the time to get to know us. He did a great ceremony and everyone loved him.
Matt
Matt Sent on 08/31/2022
5 out of 5 rating

A Perfect Ceremony

Rabbi Sam was the perfect wedding officiant for us! We enjoyed getting to know him, and he was extremely flexible in structuring our ceremony to meet our goals. Would highly recommend for other couples who want a Jewish ceremony but personalized for them.
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Dana Sent on 03/28/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Incredible Experience

We could not be more pleased with Rabbi Sam as our wedding officiant. Not only did Rabbi Sam make us feel comfortable, he took the time to get to know us personally, and tailored our ceremony to what was important to us. Our wedding was exactly what we had hoped for and it is with great thanks to Rabbi Sam. We could not recommend him enough!
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Leon Sent on 10/17/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Everything we could have hoped for

Rabbi Sam was the perfect choice for our officiant. He helped us customize our ceremony in a way that really represented us. We really enjoyed getting to know Rabbi Sam and feel a real bond. He couldn’t have been easier to work with or created a more personal or enjoyable experience. He also was able to stay in control when the rain came. Highly recommended.
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Cory Sent on 08/22/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Rabbi Sam was amazing! Warm, helpful, and funny

We’re so glad we had Rabbi Sam officiate our wedding. He was always available and went above and beyond to help us through the process, inviting us into his home and even introducing us to his adorable baby daughter. From preparation to the ceremony he patiently guided us through every detail and made sure we were comfortable and ready. Rabbi Sam helped us craft a meaningful ceremony that was accessible to our diverse crowd of guests, making everyone feel welcome, and in the right moments cracked some funny jokes too. We are really grateful to Rabbi Sam, and feel lucky to have had him as part of our wedding.
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Olesya Sent on 07/01/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Rabbi Sam Kastel

We interviewed a lot of Rabbi's. But when we spoke to him we knew he was the one. He is a Rabbi from the soul not for easy money! He gave us a lot of guidanceand I will forever be thankful to him! Plus everyone at the wedding loved him!
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Jessica Sent on 04/24/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Highly Recommended!!!

We were so happy to have Rabbi Sam officiant our wedding! He is extremely kind and professional. Throughout the time leading up to our wedding, we enjoyed our calls with him and it was a pleasure to get to know him. He knows exactly how to create the perfect ceremony to include all aspects of religion and your relationship as a couple. Our ceremony was so special and meaningful and it could not of been without Rabbi Sam. Our family was also very pleased and enjoyed meeting him as well! He is highly recommended!!
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Jared Sent on 10/23/2020
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect Experience

Rabbi Kastel did a wonderful job officiating our wedding. He's very friendly, attentive, and was extremely helpful throughout the process. We know if there's anything we need, he'll be happy to assist as he's just that type of person. The unexpected speech he gave at the end of the ceremony was amazing and will be in our memories forever.
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Jennifer Sent on 03/03/2020
5 out of 5 rating

A Perfect Ceremony

Rabbi Kastel was the perfect officiant! It was such a pleasure getting to know Rabbi Kastel in the months leading up to our wedding - he is such a wonderful guy and was so helpful, supportive, and responsive. The ceremony itself was absolutely beautiful and exactly what we had hoped for. He took the time to customize everything about the ceremony to be exactly what we wanted and to mesh together my husband's and my families' various traditions - he was even receptive to last minute changes an hour before the ceremony. We could not have asked for a more amazing Rabbi. We look forward to staying in touch!
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Liz Sent on 12/24/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Provided guidance warmly and knowledgeably

We were very grateful to work with Rabbi Sam and have him be an integral part of our wedding and helping to make our wedding the best night ever! We had an introductory 'meet and greet' with Rabbi Sam over Skype to start, and we liked him from that moment on! We appreciated that he asked us questions during that Skype session, and also shared some of his own background with us. He was open to new ideas while providing guidance when we needed it, was non judgmental, very knowledgeable, and was able to draw from his experience with other weddings, all while adding humor into the mix! They ceremony was great, as was the entire process of working with him. Thank you for everything and for working with us Rabbi Sam! We would recommend him
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1 Endorsement
Rabbi Gary Katz Rabbi Gary Katz Wedding Officiants

Rabbi Sam has a wonderful warm and calming demeanor about him. He takes a personal interest in all who cross his path and couples who work with him to officiate at their wedding are very lucky! His warmth and dry sense of humor combined with his sensitivity make the experience a memorable one. When I am unable to officiate a wedding for a couple due to a conflict with the date, Rabbi Sam is always the first person I recommend!

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