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For over 26 years, Proper Notice has been consistent in our mission: please the client and continue to bring fresh and exciting ideas, perfectly executed, to life.

It is a collaboration of style, innovation and distinction. It is a merging of your input together with many of the finest designers worldwide, and a result that will be better than you could have imagined. It is an attention to detail before, during and after that sets us apart, with nothing ever overlooked.

Proper Notice features special and extensive collections of extraordinary Wedding and special occasion invitations and announcements, integrated with a comprehensive selection of engraving, letterpress, thermography and lithography. Hand and machine calligraphy services are available, and we can even seal and mail your invitations.

Now that you’ve started, contact us and explore the possibilities.

Available by appointment.

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Frequently asked questions

What invitation and card products do you offer?

Custom Invitations
Imprinted Napkins
Menus
Place Cards
Programs
RSVP Cards
Save the Dates
Thank Yous

What services do you provide?

Assembly
Calligraphy
Design
Embossed
Engraving
Letterpress
Printing

Reviews of proper notice

Monica
Monica Sent on 08/11/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Invitation suite of my dreams!

From the start, I told Ellen and her team I didn’t want anything cookie-cutter. We wanted something bold, modern, and a little unexpected. We collaborated with Serena Martin Design on a custom watercolor inspired by our centerpieces, which we used throughout the suite. Ellen pulled together a palette of hot pink, green, and lime that felt vibrant and elevated — exactly what we envisioned for our reception, and we were able to use our suite for our invitations, dance floor design, welcome bags, and day-of stationery. Could not recommend Proper Notice more highly! Ellen understood my vision from the jump and truly delivered the invitation suite of my dreams.
Eliza
Eliza Sent on 09/28/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Gorgeous invitation suite & paper goods

Ellen is absolutely the BEST paper goods vendor to work with and we could not be happier with how everything turned out. What started as working with her on invitations led to menus, programs, table numbers, escort cards, welcome signs and more – and everything was absolutely perfect! She understood our aesthetic and managed to translate that into all our items, making them cohesive without being too “matchy”. She was so patient and helpful with all our changes, questions and indecision, especially when we had to postpone our wedding due to COVID and redo all of our paper goods. All our guests commented on how “us” our invitations were, and we still proudly display ours in our home as a reminder of that incredible day.
Jolene
Jolene Sent on 09/23/2021
5 out of 5 rating

The best invitations EVER

Ellen and her team at Proper Notice took me and my husbands stationary vision to life. From the invitations, to escort cards, to signature drinks, she totally understood the esthetic we were going for and everything she created exceeded our expectations. She is amazing and I could not recommend her enough!
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Jessica Sent on 04/05/2019
5 out of 5 rating

3/16 Wedding

We are still in awe over how beautiful our invitations came out! Ellen was amazing and helped nail our vision perfectly! The paper quality was beyond incredible and the letterpress with a crest made it SO elegant without being over the top! We will certainly be using her again!
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Ashley Sent on 12/04/2018
5 out of 5 rating

coolest invite !

Ellen was amazing! She gave us so many options and helped us find the perfect invitation for us. We had a logo on the invite that was able to be added to every detail of our wedding. It really tied it together.
She was so helpful and definitely knows her stuff!
HIGHLY recommend !
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Clifford Sent on 06/12/2018
5 out of 5 rating
Proper Notice nailed our wedding invitations. Ellen had what looked like a million samples in her conveniently-located office. She chatted with us a little while to get a sense of our style and taste. She then quickly honed in on the perfect invitation. She helped us greatly with the wording, layout, typeface, etc. They came out PERFECT. We could not be happier and cannot more strongly recommend Proper Notice!!
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Jacquelyn Sent on 07/18/2013
5 out of 5 rating
Amazing!!! Ellen is so happy and helpful throughout the whole process. She knows everything there is to know about invitations and has binders beyond binders of different types of invitations. She never pushes you toward one and lets you make every decision. I Highly recommend Proper notice for you invitations.
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Jaclyn Sent on 04/04/2011
5 out of 5 rating
Ellen of proper notice was wonderful to work with- just the personality i needed- she is very knowledgeable and carries just about every brand of invitations- would highly recommend her.
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Helen Sent on 04/04/2011
5 out of 5 rating
You are in very good hands when you work with Proper Notice. Ellen is very efficient and extremely lovely to work with. She will go the extra mile to make sure you are completely happy and that your invitations are beautiful.
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Amy Sent on 04/08/2010
5 out of 5 rating
I loved working with Ellen. She is extremely knowlegdeable and has fabulous taste!
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Ellen is wonderful to work with. She always has the most up to date selection, and really listens to what her clients ideas and thoughts and helps to guide them throughout their entire experience, whether they be looking for Wedding Invitations, announcements, engagement announcements, thank you etc. She will grow with you as you later need Baby announcements and other lifetime milestones. Proper Notice will be a resource for life. I highly recommend Them!

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