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Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant

English
Ceremony Rehearsal
Interfaith
Civil Union

Why couples loved this vendor

  • Seasoned Professional
  • Marriage License & Certificate
  • Officiant
  • Great Planner
Lauren
Ceremony
Chapin
Kelly
Natalie

Recommended by 100% of couples

About this vendor

Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant is a wedding officiant in Durham, North Carolina. She has been appointed by the American Humanist Society to legally perform weddings in all 50 states. She is available to perform weddings in the Raleigh-Durham region and beyond. Laney performs weddings for non-religious couples, interfaith couples who do not wish to include religion in their ceremonies, and religious couples who prefer to have secular ceremonies. If you are looking for an officiant who is warm, funny, open, flexible, accepting, and well-qualified to help you have a fabulous ceremony on one of the most important days of your life, book Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant.

Services Offered
Laney offers a variety of services to suit your vision for your wedding ceremony. Your ceremony should be full of warmth and uniquely reflective of who you are, whether it’s a full blown traditional wedding or an intimate gathering. She will happily accommodate your requests. She provides customized wedding ceremonies at the venue of your choice, with or without rehearsal participation, elopements, vow renewals, and more. Her other wedding officiant services include:

  • Premarital counseling
  • Customized vows
  • Licensed officiant

Features

Woman-owned

Just me

Experience

  • 8 years in business

  • We speak English

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Weddings with this vendor

Cara & Justin's wedding
Cara & Justin
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FAQ

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Ceremony Rehearsal
Premarital Counseling

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What is the starting price for ceremony rehearsals?

$185

What is the starting price for pre-marital counseling (per session)?

$125

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Buddhist
Earth-Based
No Denomination
Pagan
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

GA
NC

What languages do you speak?

English

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Reviews of Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant

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Reviewers praise Laney as an inclusive, attentive, and professional officiant who crafts personalized, story-based nonreligious ceremonies that moved guests. She’s responsive, organized, and flexible—helping with rehearsals, legal details, and premarital counseling. Highly recommended for meaningful, well-executed ceremonies.

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Reviewers praise Laney as an inclusive, attentive, and professional officiant who crafts personalized, story-based nonreligious ceremonies that moved guests. She’s responsive, organized, and flexible—helping with rehearsals, legal details, and premarital counseling. Highly recommended for meaningful, well-executed ceremonies.

Lauren
Lauren Sent on 12/08/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Incredible, Affirming Officiant

Laney was an amazing officiant for our wedding day! My partner is nonbinary and we are both not religious so we were looking for someone that was inclusive and affirming of both of us and Laney absolutely hit that mark. She was extremely professional and wrote an incredible speech about both of us after getting to know us through our meeting and questionnaire. We also hired her to do a few premartial counseling sessions which were extremely helpful in identifying some areas to discuss that we will definitely use moving forward in our marriage. Those sessions also helped us get to know each other so that on the wedding day she was another familiar face. I really appreciated that she has a clinical psychology background (as I'm a therapist myself) because I think it really helped her understand us and facilitate both counseling and our wedding. I would absolutely recommend her for any engaged couple!
Ceremony
Ceremony Sent on 12/27/2025
5 out of 5 rating

The Right Officiant for Us!

We found Laney pretty quickly after getting engaged, knowing that we were interested in a secular officiant for our wedding ceremony. Our initial meeting went so well we decided to hire her immediately. She was responsive throughout the whole process and understood exactly what we were looking for. We are really happy with how our ceremony turned out. It was very beautiful. She even stayed beyond her allotted time for the rehearsal because she could tell that I was too flustered to pay attention on the first go round! Everything went very well and I got many comments from guests on how beautiful our ceremony was!
Chapin
Chapin Sent on 12/17/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Everything we wanted in a wedding officiant

We couldn't be happier with our decision to choose Laney as our wedding officiant. Laney's approach is extremely collaborative; from understanding our needs and allowing us to work together to craft the perfect wedding narrative, all with a story-based, humanist approach. We had so many guests afterwards tell us that the ceremony was their favorite event of the evening, and so much of that is a direct reflection of the care Laney took to make sure we had the best possible wedding day. We can't recommend Laney enough!
S
Sarah Sent on 12/11/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Highly recommend

Laney was amazing to work with. She got to know us and our story. The ceremony was non-religious, beautiful, and well executed. Our multicultural guests were moved by Laney's words.
Kelly
Kelly Sent on 12/08/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful and Thoughtful Secular Ceremony

My partner and I loved having Laney Margolis as our wedding officiant! The two of us are so appreciative of her dedication and thoughtful attention to our big day, and in particular to helping us design our non-religious wedding ceremony. Through a couple of pre-event meetings and a questionnaire about our story as a couple, Laney carefully collected information about our relationship that made it feel like we had known her for much longer than we actually had. She used these details to craft a beautiful script for the ceremony, dedicating time to describing what we each loved about the other and our vision for married life together, and providing a set of vows that felt meaningful and true to us (we were not interested in writing personal vows). We had several family members tell us how special and profound the ceremony was, and we couldn't agree more!

Laney was also very helpful with the non-romantic elements of getting legally married, reminding us about the deadlines for applying for a marriage license and purchasing a certificate, and making sure our witnesses signed on the line immediately after the ceremony ended. She also took care of mailing in the signed license for us so we had one fewer thing on our to-do list after the wedding. Laney is a warm, organized professional with a talent for her work as an officiant, and we would wholeheartedly recommend her to anyone.
Natalie
Natalie Sent on 12/07/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Perfect officiant for us!

We are so happy that we went with Laney as our officiant for our wedding! After just our initial meeting with her, we knew her approach to the ceremony and just who she is as a person would totally jive with us as a couple. Laney offered multiple options for the ceremony and really listened to what we wanted. She allowed us to provide feedback and modified elements of the ceremony based on exactly what we wanted. It was important to us that the ceremony was non-religious and inclusive of everyone. She wrote a beautiful ceremony that included elements of our story, elements that she created, and traditions that were important to us. The ceremony was simple but meaningful and we just loved it! We are so thankful to Laney for her responsiveness, organization, calm demeanor, and perfect words for our ceremony.
A
Arielle Sent on 12/07/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful!

Laney was incredible! We loved our ceremony. She created a thoughtful individualized script for us, and was so helpful with organizing all our family.  She was very experienced, professional, and easy to communicate with. Her speaking voice is excellent. She was able to weave different cultural traditions into a ceremony that felt like us.
A
Abby Sent on 03/11/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Simple, meaningful, stress-free

We really had no idea how to approach our wedding ceremony and Laney expertly shepherded us through this process. She helped us create an experience that was incredibly meaningful for us, along with our friends and families. She made it easy on the days leading up to the wedding and on the day of the ceremony, and definitely exceeded our expectations.
Tara
Tara Sent on 12/16/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Simply the BEST!

As a local Wedding Planner I have worked with Laney for years. She is always kind, patient, and responsive to the couples as they plan their ceremony as well as the other vendors working on the wedding day. I enjoy her services so much that when it was time for me to get married myself, I had her officiate my ceremony and it was absolutely perfect! I highly recommend her!!
J
Jackie Sent on 09/22/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Wonderful Officiant- helped make our ceremony perfect and memorable.

Laney was absolutely wonderful to work with throughout the planning process and up to the day of our ceremony. She worked with us to create a personalized ceremony that was unique to us and made our day special and memorable. She created a ceremony that was full of love and a few laughs, which was exactly what we wanted. Laney was always quick to respond to any of our questions and very flexible to any changes we wished to make. Working with Laney helped to keep our rehearsal and ceremony organized, which was much appreciated. We highly recommend Laney!
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There are plenty of Wedding Ministers in the Triangle who will tell you that they will perform a secular ceremony for you, however, there are only a few Humanist Celebrants. Humanist Celebrants are endorsed through the American Humanist Society, which was started by Quakers in California and incorporated as a religious group with the IRS back in 1939. Therefore, Humanist Celebrants, are a non-believer's answer to clergy and will always deliver your wedding ceremony with beauty, nature, and a completely authentic and secular heart. Laney is a Humanist Celebrant. If you are looking for a kind and thoughtful Officiant who is authentic when she tells you that your ceremony will be completely secular and focus on your love, then you've found the person you are looking for. She is kind and wonderfully easy to work with, Laney's smile is reassuring, and she has a loving presence that shines through every interaction. I love recommending clients to Laney because I know she will treat them with kindness, honesty, and respect, and deliver the most amazing ceremony.

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