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Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant

Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant

Durham, NC
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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2022 Winner
WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2021 Winner
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    Samantha R. Sent on 10/17/2023
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    Incredible officiant, writer, and human

    We got married at the Oaks at Salem in Apex, NC on 10/14/23. Within minutes of meeting with Laney for the first time, we knew she was perfect for our wedding. We wanted a simple yet meaningful ceremony, and her script was amazing. She was so attentive to us as a couple, our story, and what we wanted. It stopped raining right before our ceremony, and Laney was flexible with the situation- which we appreciated SO much, as it was our dream ceremony to be outside. 10/10. Book Laney!

    Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant's reply:

    Samantha - thank you for the kind words. I loved working with you and Daniel and wish you every happiness. So glad the rain stopped in time!
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    Abby M. Sent on 11/07/2023
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    Wonderful wedding officiant

    Laney is kind, professional, and funny. We really did not know what to expect from a wedding officiant, and could not be happier. She told our story beautifully and gave us creative license to make some changes so that it felt authentically "us". Several people said that it was one of the most beautiful ceremonies they'd attended - and that came all down to her writing/storytelling.

    Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant's reply:

    Abby,

    Thank you for such kind words. I was so happy to officiate your wedding and wish you the very best of everything.

    Laney
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    Jennifer T. Sent on 06/08/2023
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    A perfect fit for our ceremony

    We were very lucky to work with Laney for our May 27th wedding. She was communicative throughout the whole process and allowed both my husband and I to include our own voices in the development of our ceremony script, which was very precious and important to both of us. We are a mixed belief household; I consider myself a pagan and my spouse is an atheist, so having a celebrant like Laney to preside over our ceremony was absolutely what was needed. Thanks again, Laney, for a wonderful wedding day!

    Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant's reply:

    Jennifer, thank you for your kind words. Your wedding was so beautiful. Wishing you both all the best.
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    Akankshi M. Sent on 12/17/2023
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    Best of the best!

    Laney Margolis had officiated our friend's wedding, and they were absolutely in awe of her. We initially wanted a close friend to officiate our wedding, but our friends recommended we go with her instead. She asked important questions about our relationship and synthesized them into a beautiful story that she narrated at the wedding. Laney was professional, punctual, officiated our wedding absolutely perfectly and took care of all the details that you shouldnt have to worry about on your day. She is the best out there!

    Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant's reply:

    Akankshi,

    Thank you so much for your kind words. I enjoyed officiating your wedding very much. Wishing you all the best.
    Laney
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    Abigail Sent on 12/11/2023
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    A thoughtful love storyteller!

    From our first meeting, we knew Laney was going to make our wedding day special! If you're looking for someone who can tell your love story in a thoughtful, captivating way, Laney is for you. She helped make our ceremony embody who we are as people. We received many compliments from our guests too!

    Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant's reply:

    Abigail,

    Thank you for your kind words and for choosing me to be part of your special day. I wish you all the best.

    Laney
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    Sarah Sent on 12/10/2023
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    Great secular officiant!

    Laney did a great job officiating our secular lesbian wedding. We liked that she used a script personalized to our story, which she let us proof in advance. She was also very responsive when answering questions.

    Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant's reply:

    Sarah,

    It was such a pleasure to be part of your wedding. Thank you so much for your kind words. Wishing you the very best.

    Laney
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    Laney was THE best!

    What a beautiful ceremony! There was so much love, joy, tears, and laughter. We had quite a story and wanted to share how our story unfolded. We loved Laney's approach to getting to know us and capturing our details. She prepared and delivered a thoughtful and loving ceremony that was perfect for US. Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!! We are so grateful and blessed to have found you.

    Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant's reply:

    Claire,

    Thank you so much for your review. There was so much love and joy at your wedding - it was a pleasure to be a part of it. Wishing you all the best.

    Laney
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    Book Laney for your wedding!

    We had an excellent experience with Laney. She was recommended to us by our wedding planner, Premier Party Planners. I really appreciated how great of a listener she was while also making great recommendations for how to make the ceremony as impactful as possible. She asked us thought-provoking questions to have us reflect on our relationship and love and was able to seamlessly integrate our answers into her speech. So many of our guests came up to us after the ceremony to tell us how much they loved the format and how personal/sentimental it was. Logistically, Laney was very responsive and professional. Overall, she was wonderful to work with and I would recommend her to anybody in the area.

    Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant's reply:

    Allyson,

    Thank you so much for your kind words. Everything about your wedding was beautiful and it was great to be a part of it. Wishing y of all the best.

    Laney
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    Elizabeth M. Sent on 11/03/2022
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    Laney is amazing!

    We hired Laney to officiate our wedding this past October, and she was an absolute joy to work with. Neither my husband nor I are very religious, so we wanted an officiant who would focus the ceremony more around our love and commitment to each other, rather than religion. Laney is an American Humanist, and she did an incredible job catering to exactly what we wanted. She took so much time to talk to us on several occasions before the wedding, and she sent us an extensive questionnaire about our marriage and why we wanted to be married. She put so much time and care into crafting an incredibly personal script based on our questionnaire responses to read at the ceremony, and it was more beautiful and touching than we could’ve imagined. Several of our guests also said that it was one of the most heartfelt ceremonies they have ever seen.

    On a personal level, Laney is incredible to work with. She is professional, speedy at replying to emails, very organized, and always on time. She’s a delightful person with a wonderful sense of humor, and we couldn’t imagine anyone better to work with for such an important aspect of our wedding day. We couldn’t recommend Laney more highly!
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    James W. Sent on 08/05/2022
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    Laney put our love story in words

    Laney felt like the right officiant from the first time we met. She gave us all good vibes. We are no good with words and chose for her to right a story for us. She did fantastic. What she got out of the interviews with us was truly amazing. She made us both cry (in a happy way of course). She shared in our laughter and happiness and seemed to truly understand our love. She worked well with the coordinators and was easy to communicate with over email. She made our day less stressful and could not have asked for a better speech and ceremony. Thank you Laney!

    Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant's reply:

    Thank you for your kind words, James. You and Rachel were so much fun to work with and your love is so obvious. Wishing you all the best.
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    Rachel D. Sent on 06/21/2022
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    Exactly What We’d Hoped For

    Second time around for each of us and marrying in mid-life, we had our eyes wide open. Laney’s style and process helped her to know us a bit and to shape a beautiful, small ceremony that reflected our values and struck the balance we wanted between informal and deeply meaningful. We couldn’t have been happier on our day.

    Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant's reply:

    Thank you so much Rachel. You and Colin were really wonderful to work with. Wishing you all the best.
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    Ashley N. Sent on 11/02/2021
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    Absolutely perfect

    Laney was fantastic. I couldn't have asked for anyone better. She made my dream ceremony happen with little to no guidance. I would HIGHLY recommend.

    Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant's reply:

    Ashley - thank you for your kind review. Your Halloween wedding was so much fun and the setting was absolutely perfect. I wish you and James the best of everything.

    Laney
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    Benjamin C. Sent on 12/01/2021
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    So Wonderful We Used Laney Twice

    TLDR: Hire Laney. You won't regret it.

    Getting married is huge. The Day is full of huge details and even bigger decisions that can impact the whole event. The person who marries you and your partner really makes a difference: they're the voice of your ceremony; they're in your pictures; they're the center of the biggest moment, even if for a brief time. Laney Margolis bring warmth, character, and that personal touch you cannot find except from an old friend. She crafts an intimate story that portrays your relationship in a beautiful narrative, reminding you of every step of the journey that lead you to this moment.

    Now I get to return the kindness with a small narrative about her:

    My wife and I have the pleasure of being married by Laney not once but twice. As many weddings nowadays go, we were impacted by the early throngs of COVID. We canceled our first ceremony for June 2020, but as the days turned into weeks and into months, my former fiancée and I decided to have a small, intimate gathering to fill the void left by the wedding cancelation and the distance from friends and family. We organized a 15 person, outdoor, distanced wedding at Greensboro's Gateway Garden Fairy Tale Stage. My wife and I spoke to several people, but when we Zoomed with Laney, it just clicked immediately. Her warm smile, comforting demeanor, and kind laugh sold us instantly, even over video.

    And on a hot day in late June, 2020, Laney married my wife and I for the first time in what I can only describe as one of the sweetest, most touching ceremonies one could ask for on two week's notice. Laney rolled with all of the ups and downs of a somewhat impromptu moment, and she wasn't bothered by us having our dog there either (as an aside, Laney has a pretty cute one herself, if you see it on Zoom calls).

    After the wedding, my wife and I changed our plans again. We were going to have my friend marry us, but we knew in our hearts that Laney was going to be the one. As they say, when you know, you know. My wife and I came to this conclusion independently of one another, both thinking it was going to upset the other. And the rest is history. Laney married us AGAIN on Halloween Eve, 2021. This time, with the proper planning, she interviewed us, had us answer questions independently, and crafted a beautiful summation of our lives together. I kid you not when I say she made me both howl with laughter and cry at memories forgotten.

    After the ceremony, our guests were blown away by the narrative threads that Laney wove. Many details will fade, in my mind, over time, about my wedding days. Laney will not be one of them. My wife and I joke that when we get married a third time (HA!), Laney Margolis will be our first phone call. And she should be yours, too.

    Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant's reply:

    Ben and Claire - thank you for the kind words. You two were so much fun to work with and I'm so glad I was a part of both of your weddings. I wish you all the best.
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    Hilary M. Sent on 11/02/2021
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    Lovely ceremony

    Laney was warm and professional and made our small wedding in the park so special!

    Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant's reply:

    Hilary - your little wedding in the park on such a beautiful day was so perfect. Thank you for the kind words. Wishing you both all the best.

    Laney
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    A ceremony that truly felt like a reflection of us

    We are SO happy we chose Laney as our officiant! From the beginning, she was responsive and organized. We decided to go with the scripted option that Laney put together for us and it was perfect. It was meaningful and thoughtful and such a perfect reflection of how we wanted our union represented. She focused on the life we’ve already built together and the continuation with the days we have ahead of us. It was very special and many of our guests complimented the sentiments she incorporated. On top of a wonderful ceremony, Laney walks you through signing the marriage license then sends it in for you once completed. I can’t recommend Laney enough!

    Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant's reply:

    Jamie,
    Thank you so much for your kind words. Your wedding was so beautiful. I wish you and Alex all the best.
    Laney
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    Cameron T. Sent on 01/16/2022
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    Our wedding was perfect

    Laney was so great through the entire process. She helped my wife and I understand all the little things that went into the ceremony, and then worked with us on each. The day itself was beautiful, and were so happy Laney was a part of such a wonderful day. We both would highly recommend her for anyone getting married.
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    Meghan Sent on 06/11/2021
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    Perfect in every way

    Laney was very organized and professional throughout our experience. Due to Covid, we met through Zoom and she was diligent about getting every detail about our ceremony and making sure we were comfortable. The ceremony was short, sweet, and beautiful, just as we wanted it. Her words put many guests to tears. Thank you Laney!

    Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant's reply:

    Meghan,
    Thank you for your lovely review. Your wedding was quite beautiful. I wish you and Joe every happiness in the future.

    Laney
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    Cara Sent on 06/01/2021
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    Beautiful Ceremony

    Laney was absolutely wonderful! Completely open to any ideas and changes to the ceremony as we went though the planning process. She is an absolute professional and you can tell she loves what she does. Thank you for our perfect ceremony.

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    Cara,

    Your wedding had so much warmth and joy in it. Thank you for your kind words. I wish you and Justine the best of everything.

    Laney
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    She made our wedding magical!

    We knew right away that Laney would be our officiant - she has a warm, kind soul. She listened to what we wanted, sent us a script well ahead, and contacted us to make sure we were good with everything. She gave us some suggestions which turned out to be better than we ever dreamed. Even our dogs loved her! I would highly recommend Laney!!

    Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant's reply:

    Lauren,

    Thank you for such kind words. You and Lonnie make a great couple and the setting for your wedding was absolutely beautiful. And yes, making friends with your dogs was an added bonus! Wishing you all the best.

    Laney
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    Beautiful ceremony

    Laney was so kind and ready to talk to from the first phone call we shared. She wrote beautiful words for our ceremony, and made sure to share the draft well before or wedding day in case we wanted to make any edits - but there was no need to, it was perfection! My husband and I wanted to keep the ceremony very short, as we both don't love standing up being center of attention, and Laney made sure to work with us on that while still making it meaningful. She offers a version where she writes a story about you as a couple, which we did not go with but i can only imagine what dreamy story it would have been! Thank you Laney for contributing to our perfect wedding!!

    Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant's reply:

    Thank you for the kind review Megan. You and Michael are a beautiful couple and the setting for your wedding was so great. Wishing you the best of everything.
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    Personable and Affable Officiant!

    Laney married my partner and I for our backyard wedding ceremony. Our plans had changed due to covid-19 and it worked out in our favor because Laney was available for this wedding date! Laney was very easy to communicate with over Wedding Wire messaging. She incorporated aspects into our ceremony that were meaningful to us as a couple. My partner and I are a mix of non-religious and spiritual and the vows she offered during our ceremony fit our needs perfectly! Our ceremony was short and sweet and she filed the marriage paperwork for us afterwards. I highly recommend hiring Laney as your officiant!

    Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant's reply:

    Tina,

    Your wedding was such a joy to do in your perfectly beautiful back yard. Thanks so much for the lovely review.

    Best,

    Laney
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    Alison K. Sent on 09/21/2020
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    Our dream wedding

    Laney made our big day so special, and we are so incredibly happy that we hired her as our officiant. In meeting with her, she took the time to really get to know us and our love story in order to create a script that felt true to us as a couple! The ceremony was perfect, and we had so many guests tell us how perfect Laney was for our wedding! Thank you so much, Laney — we couldn't have done it without you. Love, Alison & Greg

    Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant's reply:

    Alison,

    You and Greg were such a great couple to work with. Thanks so much for the review.

    Wishing you all the best,

    Laney
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    Taylor C. Sent on 08/06/2020
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    Perfect for an intimate gathering

    My husband and I eloped with just two witnesses in our friend's backyard. That's the wedding reality in a pandemic - and for us, it was absolutely perfect. Laney truly leaned into the intimacy and privacy of our tiny ceremony. She gets to what marriage is really about, stripping away all the trappings of what we think of as a wedding. Her script is beautiful and meaningful, no pomp and circumstance, just reverent commitment. That's exactly what we wanted. We opted to use the vows Laney wrote because they spoke to exactly what we wanted to promise each other. We added a section before the vows where we said some remarks to each other that we wrote. Laney was extremely helpful and responsive as we finalized the script together.

    Her presence is very calming and centering. As Laney spoke, the world melted away and it was just my husband and I locking eyes, listening to Laney's voice. That's a powerful thing -- and Laney's vibe helps foster that magic.

    If you, too, care about a meaningful, personal ceremony more than anything else, I highly recommend Laney. She'd be a fabulous choice for any secular commitment, but I think her superpowers really shine in the context of an intimate ceremony or elopement.

    Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant's reply:

    Taylor,

    Thank you so much for the review. Those comments you and Austin wrote were extraordinary.

    Wishing you the very best,

    Laney
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    An Amazing Officiant!!

    Due to COVID-19, we had to cancel our original wedding plans, but we were determined to still get married! We had already hired Laney as our officiant, but we asked her with only a week to prepare if she could perform our ceremony at a last-minute backyard wedding in a town an hour away from her. She was more than happy to do it, and we were amazed by the beautiful ceremony script she created for us in such a short amount of time! She made our last-minute wedding feel incredibly personal and special, and we are so grateful for her.
    If you're looking to have a non-religious ceremony that's packed with fun stories about your relationship, I would highly recommend Laney :) As a bonus, she is very responsive and easy to talk to!

    Laney Margolis, Humanist Celebrant's reply:

    Luna - I was so happy to be able to officiate your wedding - what a bright spot in an otherwise difficult time. I wish you and Andrew the very best. Thanks for your kind words.
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