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Howard M. Steiermann is an innovative wedding officiant in San Francisco, California. He endeavors to create warm, welcoming, heartfelt ceremonies for you and your guests. Howard has officiated at various venues, from beachfront to mansions, hotels to wineries. As an ordained non-denominational minister and rabbi, he has primarily performed ceremonies in California. Howard has also officiated in Arizona, Illinois, and Oregon.

Services Offered

Howard M. Steiermann officiates interfaith, multicultural, and non-religious ceremonies. His practice includes civil unions, rehearsals, single-religious ceremonies, and vow renewals, whether traditional or non-traditional. Howard specializes in creating ceremonies tailored to you and your big day, which engages your family and friends as joyous witnesses to the special event. Howard pays special attention to crafting a ceremony reflecting your unique background and interests.

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Frequently asked questions

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

No

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Ceremony Rehearsal
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What religious affiliations do you serve?

Agnostic
Earth-Based
Jewish
No Denomination
Presbyterian
Quaker
Shinto
Sikhism
Taoist
Unitarian

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

Less than 30 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

AZ
CA
DC
GA
IL
OR

What languages do you speak?

English

Reviews of Howard M Steiermann

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Howard is highly praised by multiple reviewers for his officiating services at weddings, vow renewals, and other celebrations. Reviewers emphasize his warm and personal approach, attention to detail, and ability to create meaningful and inclusive ceremonies. Howard's professionalism, guidance, and personalized ceremonies have left lasting impressions on couples and guests, making him a highly recommended officiant for any milestone event.

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Howard is highly praised by multiple reviewers for his officiating services at weddings, vow renewals, and other celebrations. Reviewers emphasize his warm and personal approach, attention to detail, and ability to create meaningful and inclusive ceremonies. Howard's professionalism, guidance, and personalized ceremonies have left lasting impressions on couples and guests, making him a highly recommended officiant for any milestone event.

Zach
Zach Sent on 09/30/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Perfectly Personal!

Howard was a joy to work with! He met with us multiple times leading up to the wedding to get to know us as people, as a couple, and to fully understand our relationship to religion and Judaism and worked together with us to craft a ceremony that honored Jewish tradition yet still felt perfectly us. He's totally open to meeting you where you are spiritually and his passion and skill for creating a fully customized ceremony was excellent. We received many compliments from guests that this was one of their favorite ceremonies to witness and that they "could truly feel *us* within the ceremony."
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Nicole Sent on 02/18/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Highly Recommended Officiant

We cannot recommend Howard enough. From the moment the ceremony began, he created an atmosphere that was warm, meaningful, and uniquely personal to us. We truly couldn’t go an hour without a guest telling us how incredible he was and how special he made the ceremony feel. His energy, love, enthusiasm, and genuine positivity set the tone for our entire engagement process and wedding weekend in Mexico. We are so grateful for the care he put into every detail and for making our wedding feel so authentic and unforgettable.
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Alan Sent on 02/02/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Highly Recommend Howard Steiermann

My husband and I have now been together for 25 years, married for 10. My husband and I have now been together for 25 years, married for 10. Howard officiated our marriage 10 years ago. We decided to host a large anniversary celebration in October that included a vow renewal in addition to the party and celebrations. Our event was held in Atlanta, GA where we now reside. Howard helped us with the planning of the anniversary vow renewal and officiated that part of the ceremony / celebration. We had a wonderful experience working with Howard! He is personable and really took the time to understand the atmosphere and style of ceremony we were after. We were looking for something less formal in terms of ceremony in favor of something more personal and inclusive for all our family and friends in attendance. Howard really went the extra mile in terms of working not only with us on our "love letter" vows, but he also worked with several attendees who also participated in the ceremony. Additionally, due to the size of the event we hired and event planner and Howard worked very closely with her on the logistics and planning. The whole process was smooth and well coordinated. Howard brought an incredible amount of warmth and personality to the event itself and we felt totally embraced and well taken care of by him. He was always available to us and the geography / time zone difference was a non-issue. Howard is a pro and we would definitely work with him again for another milestone celebration and or life event! We highly recommend him.
Mark
Mark Sent on 01/29/2026
5 out of 5 rating

Fantastic Service

Howard was great to work with. Meeting with him was easy and he put together a great service that made everyone feel the love in the ceremony. It was like he had known us for years.
Suzana
Suzana Sent on 04/27/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Our wedding at home

We met Howard at an introductory first meeting online and then at his home to see if we were a good fit for one another. My first impression of him was that he was warm and kind. He made a point to get to know my now husband and myself by asking us all the right questions without being intrusive. We talked for about an hour and I felt then that he would conduct himself and our wedding ceremony with thought, grace and dignity. I was right! My husband and I were so grateful to have Howard's guidance and presence at one of the most important event of our lives. I was especially so very touched by the words Howard spoke to us and will remember them eternally. Howard, thank you so very much.
Jim and Sue
Neri
Neri Sent on 03/30/2025
5 out of 5 rating

An integral part of our special day!

We had a great experience working with Howard! He led the dialogue about things we should be thinking about and considering before and during our wedding. He provided good framework about what we did and didn't want to be included and helped ensure everyone was comfortable and felt included during the whole process.

Howard was kind, responsive, professional, and extremely accommodating. We'd highly recommend him to anyone!

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Elliot Sent on 08/14/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding Ceremony

Rabbi Howard was absolutely incredible. My wife, Marissa, and I had a destination wedding in Napa (coming from NYC) and he made us feel so comfortable during the ceremony and the months leading up. His demeanor was A+ and we could not have been more fortunate to have been introduced to him. We both highly recommend his services - you won't regret it!
Yoni
Yoni Sent on 07/27/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Absolutely phenomenal

Howard was simply the best. He took time to get to know my wife and I and made sure to include things he learned about us in a gorgeous and meaningful ceremony. Not only was Howard kind, caring, and genuine, but he is also an absolute professional with the pre and post wedding details (for all the legal things we weren't aware of). We also couldn't have been more thrilled to have his insight an suggestions with our ceremony, vows, and overall organization of the moments leading up and shortly after the ceremony itself. Our guests couldn't stop sharing how special Howard's words were. He is so inclusive and was able to weave a mix of religion (jewish, emphasis on the "ish" and non-secular) and ensured that all cultures were so well respected. To put it simply, Howard made our wedding so incredibly special we have to recommend him to any couple getting married. Thank you, Howard - you made our day so amazingly special!
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Joseph Sent on 05/20/2024
5 out of 5 rating

Our wishes became reality

We thoroughly enjoyed our experience working with Howard. You will find him immediately to be sincere, thoughtful, and professional. We were interested in getting to know him and his process in creating our weddings ceremony. We were both impressed with how he crafted our ideas and responses to his questions. You have to give him some fuel to create and volunteer your wishes; as he will listen. We hope you enjoy your wedding ceremony with Howard as much as we did. Joseph & Kathy
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Victoria Sent on 02/21/2024
5 out of 5 rating

An second-to-none wedding officiant!

Howard has a gift of listening and blending with all people in a way that lights up a room and makes everyone feel joy! Howard was the officiant at our daughter's wedding over four months ago. Our friends still bring up how amazing the ceremony was in terms of the connection that Howard made to not only the bride and groom but to all the guests. His spirituality, humor and loving personality make him a blessing to have at any wedding!
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Professional Network & Endorsements

1 Endorsement
Reverend Elizabeth River Wedding Officiant Reverend Elizabeth River Wedding Officiant Wedding Officiants

Howard officiated a lovely wedding with two wonderful men who had been together 31 years, and finally decided to get married as one of them had a terminal diagnosis. It was a ceremony that was tender, loving, uplifting and beautifully reflective of their love and their relationship. Everyone who attended spoke about Howard's ceremony and how it suited the two grooms just perfectly. I referred these gentlemen to Howard, as, although I am also an officiant, I was hospice chaplain to the one groom, and my employer wouldn't allow me to provide that service for them. And Howard was the perfect man for the job--they loved him, and were thrilled with their wedding. I refer Howard whenever I can't take a couple, and I recommend him to everyone! Elizabeth River, wedding officiant in the North Bay area.

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