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Hi, I’m Lauren and I’m here to celebrate love in all its magic, messiness and meaning.

I work with queer, creative, beautifully non-traditional folks - brave, tender-hearted humans who were never meant to fit inside anyone else’s box. You feel deeply. You love fiercely. You ask big questions. You crave meaning and want your ceremony to reflect who you truly are.

You're not here for a script or a performance. You're here for something real; something joyful, soulful, and alive. A celebration that holds both laughter and tears, where delight meets depth, and every part of you is welcome.

Together, we co-create a ceremony that feels like coming home. Not just a reflection of your love story, but an honoring of your values, your becoming, your joy.

Because love is sacred. And celebration can be playful, honest, and wildly true. I'm so honored to walk beside you as you cross this threshold.

Curious to learn more? Schedule a free 45-minute “Get Acquainted” call—I can’t wait to meet you!

www.laurensnead.love

Services Offered
I am an award-winning Bay Area Wedding Officiant who works with couples from all over the world! I have been officiating civil unions, interfaith ceremonies, non-religious ceremonies and vow renewals since 2007. I offer counseling and customized vows to make the experience as loving as possible. I am queer, non-binary and offer premarital coaching, a meaningful, original ceremony, and a unique officiant experience. I am licensed in all 50 states and the District of Columbia.

  • LGBTQ+-owned
  • Woman-owned
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Frequently asked questions

Which of the following are included in the price of your wedding officiant services?

Premarital Counseling

Does starting price include the ceremony rehearsal?

Yes

What types of weddings and events do you provide services for?

Non-religious
Interfaith
Vow Renewal
Civil Union

What services do you provide?

Premarital Counseling

What religious affiliations do you serve?

No Denomination

On average, how long are wedding ceremonies you officiate?

30-60 mins.

In which states are you licensed?

AL
AK
AZ
AR
CA
CO
CT
DE
DC
FL
GA
HI
ID
IL
IN
IA
KS
KY
LA
ME
MD
MA
MI
MN
MS
MO
MT
NE
NV
NH
NJ
NM
NY
NC
ND
OH
OK
OR
PA
RI
SC
SD
TN
TX
UT
VT
VA
WA
WV
WI
WY

What languages do you speak?

English

Reviews of Lauren Snead Wedding Officiant

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Lauren is highly praised by several couples for their exceptional officiating services at weddings. Couples express gratitude for Lauren's unique, personalized approach that captures their love story in a heartfelt, intimate, and authentic manner. Lauren's caring nature, professionalism, and ability to craft ceremonies that reflect individuality while radiating love and joy are highlighted. Clients appreciate the detailed discovery process, emotional depth, and seamless communication provided by Lauren, making their wedding ceremonies unforgettable and cherished by all.

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Lauren is highly praised by several couples for their exceptional officiating services at weddings. Couples express gratitude for Lauren's unique, personalized approach that captures their love story in a heartfelt, intimate, and authentic manner. Lauren's caring nature, professionalism, and ability to craft ceremonies that reflect individuality while radiating love and joy are highlighted. Clients appreciate the detailed discovery process, emotional depth, and seamless communication provided by Lauren, making their wedding ceremonies unforgettable and cherished by all.

Ciaron
Ciaron Sent on 10/13/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Caring, Professional and Dedicated

Meeting Lauren to officiate our wedding was nothing short of fate. From the moment we first connected with them, it was as if we had found a long-lost friend who was meant to play a pivotal role in our special day.

Lauren possesses a remarkable gift for connecting with people, we found ourselves instantly at ease. They have an uncanny ability to delve deep into understanding a relationship, and their genuine interest in our love story was evident from the start. What resulted from this deep connection was an extraordinary ceremony that was nothing short of masterfully handcrafted and heartfelt.

Lauren's dedication to us went far beyond the initial meeting. They made themselves readily available day and night, patiently answering our questions and providing guidance about the ceremony and beyond. Their unwavering support and accessibility eased our minds and made the entire process incredibly smooth.

When the big day arrived, Lauren's presence was a true gift. Their genuine joy and enthusiasm mirrored our own excitement, and it was clear that they were just as thrilled to be there with us as we were to have them. Their words during the ceremony were beautifully crafted, a testament to their commitment to making our day as special as it could possibly be.

Lauren is not just an expert in their field; they're a friend who genuinely cares about the couples they work with. It's rare to find someone who combines professionalism and a warm, caring heart the way they do. We were guided through this important journey by not only a true expert but also a true friend.

We couldn't have asked for a better person to lead us into this new chapter of our lives. If you're looking for someone to make your wedding day extraordinary, look no further than Lauren. They're the embodiment of what a wedding officiant should be – caring, professional, and dedicated. We are forever grateful for their role in making our day as perfect as it was.
Jonas
Jonas Sent on 01/27/2026
5 out of 5 rating

From Germany with Love

Working with Lauren was the best decision we made for our wedding. Being located in Germany, we were unsure about the specifics of a California ceremony and didn't want to rely on generic internet research. Lauren provided incredible, proactive support from day one.

What sets Lauren apart is the discovery process. It isn't a "standard procedure"—it’s a deep dive that helped us get mentally and emotionally prepared for our marriage. Everything was handled with professional ease before, during, and even after the ceremony. If you are looking for a celebrant who offers full support and a non-standard, authentic approach, we cannot recommend Lauren highly enough.
Allison
Allison Sent on 11/16/2025
5 out of 5 rating

You found the best, so you can stop looking!

When my husband and I got engaged, one of the first things we talked about was having a ceremony that felt like us. A ceremony that wasn't the same script we had heard time and time again in movies, but something that celebrated our individuality. Lauren was highly recommended by our venue and even after the first email, we knew they were someone special. After our initial zoom call with Lauren, we knew they were exactly who we were looking for! Lauren's process is so unique and takes you through an in-depth look of why you're getting married in the first place. The questionnaire you fill out in the beginning of phase one takes you out of the logistics of planning a wedding and back into feeling the love; the whole reason you're even getting married! Lauren made us feel seen, loved, and cared for as if we had been friends for several years! Not only did Lauren create a beautiful ceremony that came from their heart, but it perfectly captured our love story and the love we have for each other. Everyone who attended our wedding thought we had known Lauren for decades and said the ceremony was their favorite part of the day as they loved how unique and special it was! Lauren also helped us with a vow resource that was incredibly helpful to organize your thoughts into the perfect way to express your feelings to your partner. Our day was the most magical day in our lives thus far, and we have Lauren to thank greatly for that as they helped us bring so much love and light into our day! If you're looking for a ceremony that feels intimate (no matter the guest size), captures your story perfectly, and that radiates love and happiness; choose Lauren! I promise you and your family will be talking about the ceremony for years to come. We love you Lauren!
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Giselle Sent on 10/14/2025
5 out of 5 rating

The BEST Love Celebrant!

Lauren is absolutely phenomenal at what they do!! Lauren made our day so special and filled with love, emotion, kindness and joy. My husband and I have been through a lot in our time together. But we’ve come out stronger on the other side. Lauren took note of this and helped us cultivate an experience that acknowledged the challenges and celebrated the growth, our love and our commitment.

Before working with Lauren, we felt excited and happy to celebrate our day of love. But after working with Lauren we realized how much more there was to celebrate. Lauren guided us in celebrating our love, our growth together, our growth individually and the love around us (friends, family, pets). Lauren enhanced our experience with their great questions and exercises they provided for us. My husband and I were able to dig even deeper and truly celebrate our love this way. 

There’s so much more to say about Lauren. But here are my top three highlights: 

1. Truly caring: Lauren is a caring person who digs deep and wants to know what makes your love special. On top of that, Lauren truly cares about every single person they work with. It’s very clear. They made us feel like family. 

2. Professional but human: Lauren isn’t just an “officiant” that word simply isn’t enough. Lauren is the embodiment of a Love Celebrant! With Lauren all basis are covered. They are professional but also HUMAN. I’ve never once heard of an “officiant” getting to know their couples so well. Lauren goes above and beyond. Lauren quickly felt like a safe space for both of us. 

3. A talent with words: Lauren said things that dug deep, touched our hearts and all of our guests. Lauren truly gets to know you so well that the words feel like a lifelong friend is speaking about you. How amazing is that on your wedding day?! It didn’t feel like a copy and paste but it was tailored to exactly who we are and our story. 

Bonus: Lauren has a great sense of humor and is so helpful! Lauren won’t make you feel like your wedding day isn’t your day. Lauren is accommodating, helpful and is all about the non-traditional weddings which was a huge reason we wanted to work with them. Lauren never once shamed us for our ideas and instead embraced them and made sure we had a perfect day! 

I highly suggest working with Lauren for your wedding. You won’t regret it! It’s the best decision you can make for a day that is so important.
Riannon
Riannon Sent on 08/22/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Cannot recommend Lauren enough!!!!

From the moment that my now wife and I reached out to Lauren, we knew they were our officiant. And that decision was only solidified the more we met with Lauren.

Lauren took the time to get know us individually and as a couple. This proved to be one of the highlights of our wedding planning as it continued to keep us grounded in the moments that mattered most and were somehow the most stressful.

I unfortunately lost my Mother about 6 weeks before our wedding date. We reached out to Lauren to add something to our already finished ceremony that could honor my late Mom. It was zero surprise that Lauren was absolutely there to meet with us to go over what we wanted changed. Lauren even suggested some very meaningful things that we couldn’t think of ourselves. This made the ceremony even more meaningful as it felt like everything we had asked for was met and more.

If you are looking for someone that can create a unique and deeply connected ceremony for you and your partner, you’ve found the right person. Lauren will absolutely make sure that your ceremony is grounded in who you and your partner are and who you are together.
Becky
Becky Sent on 06/20/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Lauren was fantastic!

Lauren was fantastic! We wanted a small wedding with just immediate family, and we were hoping for an officiant who could make the ceremony feel very light and joyful but also meaningful. Luckily, Lauren was recommended to us, and we couldn’t have been happier with them! The multi-step process they created really enabled us all to get to know each other. Even though my now-husband and I are relatively private and introverted people, Lauren was able to immediately put us at ease as if we were talking to an old friend. After meeting with us several times and learning about our relationship, Lauren was able to write a ceremony that was tailored perfectly for us. Thank you, Lauren, for all the wonderful memories!
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Matt Sent on 04/18/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Five thumbs up!

We both knew we wanted Lauren to be part of our wedding from the moment of our first meeting. You can probably tell from her photos that Lauren is fun and energetic, and she is—her enthusiasm is infectious! But she is also very well organized. And she is a warm and empathetic human. She guided us through the process of crafting our own unique wedding ceremony, listening to us while encouraging both of us to listen to each other. We’re so grateful that Lauren helped make our day memorable not only for us, but for all of our loved ones in our community who celebrated with us. We can’t recommend her highly enough—thank you, Lauren!
Erin
Erin Sent on 02/09/2025
5 out of 5 rating

The Best Decision We Made for Our Wedding

When we started planning our wedding, we had no idea just how important choosing the right officiant would be. We were caught up in the logistics. Since we were planning an elopement-style ceremony at San Francisco City Hall from our home in Texas, every vendor we worked with played a crucial role in making the day feel special and personal. We had plenty of nerves going into it, but from the moment we found Lauren, their enthusiasm, curiosity, and warmth made us feel like we could do anything. Needless to say, we jumped on board for the full Lauren Snead experience!

They were there for us in every way imaginable—guiding us not just through the logistics, but through a deeper journey of reflection that prepared us for the big day in ways we didn't know we needed. Their thoughtful questions challenged us in the best way, helping us articulate what marriage meant to us, what we wanted our ceremony to feel like, and how to be truly present in the moment.

Even in the final days before our wedding—when we were making last-minute tweaks from a plane—Lauren assured us that everything would be exactly as we envisioned. And it was. We will never forget walking into City Hall and hearing Lauren call out our names from the 4th-floor balcony, arms wide open, radiating joy. That moment set the tone for everything that followed.

Lauren spontaneously lent the groom their lucky green bowtie—and it magically completed the look! They grounded us all before the ceremony, acknowledging the space and its significance. They thought of everything. Arranging the chairs in a tight semicircle so we could all hear each other. Facilitating a tree-planting ceremony. Leading group vows that made everyone feel part of something bigger. Balancing humor with raw, earnest emotion—crying right along with us in the tender moments and bringing the perfect dose of lightness when we needed it.

Our guests were stunned to learn that we had only just met Lauren in person that day. Their presence felt like that of a lifelong friend. So if you're searching for an officiant, stop now and book Lauren. They will make your wedding unforgettable in the best possible way. ~Erin and Sara
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Emily Sent on 01/18/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Memorable and intimate elopement

Lauren worked with my wife, Kara, and I for about a year before our elopement in CA. Lauren’s presence feels like a couples therapist mixed with an officiant and a spiritual guide. She is funny, kind, and super prepared to help couples get ready for their ceremony. Kara and I loved working with her in the lead up to the day, and loved meeting her in person even more. The words she prepared were beautiful & she made us laugh and cry. We highly recommend her!
Elyse
Elyse Sent on 01/13/2025
5 out of 5 rating

lauren is the best!!

We got sooo many compliments on our ceremony, and it is all thanks to Lauren! From our first meeting with them, we knew we trusted them with creating our perfect ceremony. They spent a lot of time getting to know us and our story. We had no idea where to start when it came to planning a ceremony. They have a ton of experience and ideas and helped us decide on what parts of the ceremony were important for us. They also checked on us throughout the process and helped calm our nerves when we needed it.

On the day of our wedding Lauren was amazing! They knew how to captivate a crowd. They are charismatic, engaging, and they created exactly the mood that i wanted which was sentimental and emotional. By the end, everyone was crying.

Lauren was a dream to work with, and I am so happy she was part of our special day. Highly recommend them as your wedding officiant!!
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Awards

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2026 Winner
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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2023 Winner
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Professional Network & Endorsements

4 Endorsements
Evergreen Wedding Films Evergreen Wedding Films Wedding Videographers

This is such a wonderful company to work with. We highly recommend.

Olivia Smartt Photography Olivia Smartt Photography Wedding Photographers

Lauren is THE BEST. Period. Full stop. Above and beyond all others.

Inner Light Ceremonies Inner Light Ceremonies Wedding Officiants

Lauren provided me with coaching services as I began my personal business and dream to become a wedding officiant. From the day we met during her free consultation she blew me away with her passion for life and the world of officiating. Lauren is a natural at empowering others to rock at being themselves and there is no doubt that I wouldn't be where I am if it weren't for her guidance, encouragement, and creative coaching style. Lauren is incredibly unique and valuable to this industry and you need her in your life!

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