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Margaret Addivinola
Margaret Addivinola
Director Of Catering

12 years in business

We speak English

Large team (21+ members)

Celebrate Every Milestone at Grand Oaks Country Club

From the moment you arrive at our 19th-century Dutch Colonial revival estate, you’ll know you’ve found more than a venue, you’ve found the backdrop for life’s most unforgettable moments.

Whether it’s your dream wedding, an elegant engagement party, a lively bachelor golf outing, a bridal shower, or a first birthday, christening, communion, or anniversary, Grand Oaks’ lush, picturesque atmosphere is where Staten Island couples and families come together to celebrate.

Why couples and families choose Grand Oaks again and again:

  • All-inclusive wedding and event packages with premium open bar, choice of buffet or plated cuisine, and interactive chef-attended stations.

  • Award-winning culinary team offering customized menus including kosher, halal, vegan, vegetarian, and gluten-free options.

  • Indoor and outdoor spaces across 147 acres, from fairway-view patios to grand ballrooms that host up to 1,500 guests.

  • Flexible pricing and tailored packages. With multiple ballrooms and indoor/outdoor settings, we help you plan your vision in a way that fits comfortably within your budget.

  • Complete peace of mind with expert event planners to simplify the process, plus setup, cleanup, and seamless coordination handled by our experienced staff.

  • Every convenience covered: bridal suites, a dedicated bridal attendant managing all your day-of needs, valet service, pet-friendly policy, wheelchair access, and liability insurance.

At Grand Oaks, you don’t just book a venue, you gain a trusted partner for every chapter of your story. From “yes” to “I do,” from first birthdays to golden anniversaries, our team makes every event feel like once-in-a-lifetime.

👉 Schedule your tour today and see why generations of families return to Grand Oaks to make memories that last forever.

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FAQ

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during peak season?

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during off-peak season?

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

$1,000

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during off-peak season?

$1,000

Which of the following are included in starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Chairs
China
Flatware
Linens
Parking
Tables

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Cake Cutting
Dessert
Server(s)
Wedding Cake

What is the starting price per person for bar service?

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)
House Beer
House Wine

What is the minimum number of guests required to book your venue?

50

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

4

Describe your venue:

Country/Golf Club

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Covered Outdoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party

What event services do you offer?

Bar Services
Catering Services
Clean Up
Event Planner
Event Rentals
Get Ready Rooms
Liability Insurance
Outside Vendors
Pet Friendly
Wifi

What catering services do you offer?

Buffet
Cocktail Reception
Dessert
Family Style
Hors d'oeuvres
Outside Cake
Plated
Stations
Tastings

What bar services do you provide?

Bartender(s)
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Liquor License
Open Bar
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink
Specialty Beer
Specialty Wine

What event items are available?

Aisle Runners
Altar/Arch
Audio Equipment
Chairs
Chair Covers
Dance Floor
Decor
Furniture
Lighting
Tables
Tent Accessories

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
China
Chocolate Fountain
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Valet
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

June
July
August
September
October

What months are included in your off-peak season?

February
March
April
May
November
December

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Reviews of Grand Oaks Country Club

Weddingwire
4.9/5 28 reviews
Google
4.4/5 337 reviews
Kara Criscitiello
Kara Sent on 04/11/2017
5 out of 5 rating
My mother booked Grand Oaks for my bridal shower. All I can say is this place is absolutely gorgeous and the staff is wonderful. Betty orchestrated the entire shower and even threw in sangria for our guests! She decorated the room and made sure everything was just perfect. The brunch buffet was delicious and Betty made sure I was taken care of since I was running around with all my guests. The garden room was absolutely beautiful and our guests were able to walk outside onto the patio surrounding the golf course. Just gorgeous all around. I would highly recommend the Grand Oaks!!
Niesie
Denise Sent on 08/30/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful venue

Our wedding was beautiful! The grand oaks does not need any kind of decorations for your event to look beautiful. The scenery and the establishment itself is amazing. The staff are professional and helped us all the way through our event from the planning to the day of. We had access to the gazebo, patio for our cocktail hour, and second floor ballroom and bridal suite. I’ll try to attach more photos when our professional pictures are finished
Yana
Yana Sent on 11/06/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Grand Oaks was amazing

I got married about 2 weeks ago at Grand Oaks Country Club and i loved it! The staff is amazing! Yvette, my bridal attendant, was so sweet and accommodating. She knew what I wanted before I even asked for it and went above and beyond to make my wedding day easier for me. Betty, the maitre'd, was simply the best! She come to the rescue when my parents forgot my cake topper she went in search for something to replace it and saved me from freaking out. The rest of the staff were friendly and great. The food was amazing - I still have guests mentioning to me how they loved their meals at both cocktail hour and reception. The grounds are beautiful and picturesque; sadly for me it rained ALL DAY on my wedding day so I couldn't get any pictures outside but nonetheless my wedding day was awesome thanks to the wonderful staff at Grand Oaks Country Club!
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Awards

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2020 Winner
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Real Weddings

Mary & Joe
10 photos · 06/21/2025
Mei & Frank
57 photos · 07/20/2024
Molly & Greg
70 photos · 09/16/2012

Team

Alyssa Moccia
Alyssa Moccia
Event Planner
Margaret Addivinola
Margaret Addivinola
Director Of Catering

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Grand Oaks Country Club frequently asked questions

Grand Oaks Country Club includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Bridal Suite
  • Chairs
  • China
  • Flatware
  • Linens
  • Parking
  • Tables
Grand Oaks Country Club includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Cake Cutting
  • Dessert
  • Server(s)
  • Wedding Cake
The bar service starting price at Grand Oaks Country Club includes:
  • Bartender(s)
  • House Beer
  • House Wine
The space offered by Grand Oaks Country Club for wedding events is known for:
  • Country/Golf Club
Grand Oaks Country Club offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Covered Outdoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
Grand Oaks Country Club offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
Grand Oaks Country Club offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Bar Services
  • Catering Services
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planner
  • Event Rentals
  • Get Ready Rooms
  • Liability Insurance
  • Outside Vendors
  • Pet Friendly
  • Wifi
Grand Oaks Country Club offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Aisle Runners
  • Altar/Arch
  • Audio Equipment
  • Chairs
  • Chair Covers
  • Dance Floor
  • Decor
  • Furniture
  • Lighting
  • Tables
  • Tent Accessories
Grand Oaks Country Club is recommended by 98% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.9 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 5 in professionalism, 5 in value, 4.9 in quality of service, 4.9 in average response time and 4.9 in flexibility.
Grand Oaks Country Club currently offers 1 offer promotion for wedding services.
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