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  • 2020

Grand Oaks Country Club

From 50 to 350 guests
Ceremony/Reception
Outdoor/Indoor
Get Ready Rooms
Magdalena
Kathy
Samantha
Elizabeth
Laura

Recommended by 98% of couples

About this venue

Celebrate Every Milestone at Grand Oaks Country Club

From the moment you arrive at our 19th-century Dutch Colonial revival estate, you’ll know you’ve found more than a venue, you’ve found the backdrop for life’s most unforgettable moments.

Whether it’s your dream wedding, an elegant engagement party, a lively bachelor golf outing, a bridal shower, or a first birthday, christening, communion, or anniversary, Grand Oaks’ lush, picturesque atmosphere is where Staten Island couples and families come together to celebrate.

Why couples and families choose Grand Oaks again and again:

  • All-inclusive wedding and event packages with premium open bar, choice of buffet or plated cuisine, and interactive chef-attended stations.

  • Award-winning culinary team offering customized menus including kosher, halal, vegan, vegetarian, and gluten-free options.

  • Indoor and outdoor spaces across 147 acres, from fairway-view patios to grand ballrooms that host up to 1,500 guests.

  • Flexible pricing and tailored packages. With multiple ballrooms and indoor/outdoor settings, we help you plan your vision in a way that fits comfortably within your budget.

  • Complete peace of mind with expert event planners to simplify the process, plus setup, cleanup, and seamless coordination handled by our experienced staff.

  • Every convenience covered: bridal suites, a dedicated bridal attendant managing all your day-of needs, valet service, pet-friendly policy, wheelchair access, and liability insurance.

At Grand Oaks, you don’t just book a venue, you gain a trusted partner for every chapter of your story. From “yes” to “I do,” from first birthdays to golden anniversaries, our team makes every event feel like once-in-a-lifetime.

👉 Schedule your tour today and see why generations of families return to Grand Oaks to make memories that last forever.

Features

Large team (21+ members)

Experience

  • 13 years in business

  • We speak English

Links

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Weddings at this venue

Mike & Amanda's wedding
Mike & Amanda
14 photos
Michelle & Kevin's wedding
Michelle & Kevin
14 photos
Mary & Joe's wedding
Mary & Joe
10 photos
Mei & Frank's wedding
Mei & Frank
57 photos
Molly & Greg's wedding
Molly & Greg
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FAQ

Do you have a site fee for wedding receptions at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during peak season?

What is the starting site fee for wedding receptions during off-peak season?

Do you have a site fee for wedding ceremonies at your venue?

Yes

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during peak season?

$1,000

What is the starting site fee for wedding ceremonies during off-peak season?

$1,000

Which of the following are included in the starting site fee?

Bridal Suite
Chairs
China
Flatware
Linens
Parking
Tables

Which of the following are included in the cost of wedding catering?

Cake Cutting
Dessert
Server(s)
Wedding Cake

What is the starting price per person for bar service?

Which of the following are included in the starting price for bar service?

Bartender(s)
House Beer
House Wine

What is the minimum number of guests required to book your venue?

50

How many event spaces or rooms does your venue offer?

4

Describe your venue:

Country/Golf Club

What kind of settings are available?

Indoor
Covered Outdoor
Uncovered Outdoor

Which of the following wedding events does your venue service?

Ceremony
Reception
Bridal Shower
Engagement Party

What event services do you offer?

Bar Services
Catering Services
Clean Up
Event Planner
Event Rentals
Get Ready Rooms
Liability Insurance
Outside Vendors
Pet Friendly
Wifi

What catering services do you offer?

Buffet
Cocktail Reception
Dessert
Family Style
Hors d'oeuvres
Outside Cake
Plated
Stations
Tastings

What bar services do you provide?

Bartender(s)
Champagne Toast
House Beer
House Liquor
House Wine
Liquor License
Open Bar
Premium Liquor
Signature Drink
Specialty Beer
Specialty Wine

What event items are available?

Aisle Runners
Altar/Arch
Audio Equipment
Chairs
Chair Covers
Dance Floor
Decor
Furniture
Lighting
Tables
Tent Accessories

What food and beverage items are available?

Barware
China
Chocolate Fountain
Flatware
Glassware
Linens

What transportation and access is available?

Parking
Valet
Wheelchair Access

What months are included in your peak season?

June
July
August
September
October

What months are included in your off-peak season?

February
March
April
May
November
December

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Reviews of Grand Oaks Country Club

Weddingwire
4.9/5 28 reviews
Google
4.5/5 369 reviews
Magdalena
Magdalena Sent on 10/15/2025
5 out of 5 rating

10/10/25 wedding

BEST WEDDING VENUE EVER for our 10/10/25 DAY! Brittany and her entire team exceeded our expectations from the beautiful landscaping, customer service, food, staff, decorations, problem solving when needed, and overall experience. We had a blast planning and having Brittany see our vision, respect our traditions, and truly made us feel like family. I would recommend this venue and its entire staff for all future events. Thank you Grand Oaks for making our wedding day extra perfect!
Kathy
Kathy Sent on 06/09/2025
5 out of 5 rating

Exceptional experience

I have attended 2 events in the past couple of weeks. The service was top notch, venue is beautiful and extremely clean. Food was delish and served to perfection. Shout out to Leo who was attentive and made sure our needs were met. Highly recommend this venue for your next event.
Samantha
Samantha Sent on 08/19/2023
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful romantic hall and more at a great price

The grand oaks brought our wedding vision to life. The beautiful hall room, large dance floor, the scenic grounds and beautiful photo op areas were all on our list of things we needs. There was also a large and delicious array of food to choose from. We chose the pinnacle package and we had so many options for different types of food for our menu, which all were a hit and delicious. Our wedding cake was even more delicious, we could’ve eaten the whole cake ourselves that night! Working with Margaret and Alyssa was an easy, helpful experience. They were always available over email or phone for any question we could possibly have. The bridal attendant and Maitre d’ were all extremely helpful the night of and made sure the bride and groom were satisfied, made sure we had enough to eat, that we were eating, and, if we needed any drinks or anything at all to help our night run smoothly as possible, we were given first priority. We used some of the centerpieces the hall provided which are beautiful tall candelabras and then we used low floral centerpieces from our florist which made the room stunning with high low views in the room. The price we paid for everything we received we wouldn’t have received anywhere else and they made our vision come to life.
Elizabeth
Elizabeth Sent on 05/23/2022
5 out of 5 rating

Wedding 4/23/22

I came to Grand Oaks after postponing my wedding twice and losing my original venue due to the pandemic. Despite not being my first choice, Grand Oaks was definitely the BEST choice. Firstly, the grounds and the building/ballroom are all stunning. My husband and I are in love with our photos. The food is delicious and there are lots of options and packages. While food and ambiance are always important, I also have to say the staff here is pretty great as well. We worked with Patty and she was organized, helpful, and pleasant. John and Marie (our bridal attendant) were equally as amazing. They were so on top of everything and committed to making sure the night went smoothly. Marie is especially such a gem. She took care of almost everything for me, from holding the train of my gown, bustling my dress, suggesting good spots for photos, bringing my husband and I drinks and food to make sure we ate - I can’t thank her enough. I don’t think I would’ve enjoyed the night as much as I did without her. What a special place run by competent and hardworking people. I hope to be able to have another event here one day.
Laura
Laura Sent on 11/27/2021
5 out of 5 rating

Dream Wedding at Grand Oaks

I'm so happy I chose to have my wedding at Grand Oaks. Not only is it a beautiful venue, but they were they super helpful with planning (Brittany was such a sweetheart and was always ready to answer any question!), but they also included catering and alcohol in the final cost, which made things so much easier. The staff are incredibly nice, too. Trust me, you won't regret choosing Grand Oaks!!
D
Diana Sent on 11/23/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Amazing wedding!

Amazing experience amazing staff amazing food !! Made my wedding absolutely amazing!
Yana
Yana Sent on 11/06/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Grand Oaks was amazing

I got married about 2 weeks ago at Grand Oaks Country Club and i loved it! The staff is amazing! Yvette, my bridal attendant, was so sweet and accommodating. She knew what I wanted before I even asked for it and went above and beyond to make my wedding day easier for me. Betty, the maitre'd, was simply the best! She come to the rescue when my parents forgot my cake topper she went in search for something to replace it and saved me from freaking out. The rest of the staff were friendly and great. The food was amazing - I still have guests mentioning to me how they loved their meals at both cocktail hour and reception. The grounds are beautiful and picturesque; sadly for me it rained ALL DAY on my wedding day so I couldn't get any pictures outside but nonetheless my wedding day was awesome thanks to the wonderful staff at Grand Oaks Country Club!
Niesie
Denise Sent on 08/30/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Beautiful venue

Our wedding was beautiful! The grand oaks does not need any kind of decorations for your event to look beautiful. The scenery and the establishment itself is amazing. The staff are professional and helped us all the way through our event from the planning to the day of. We had access to the gazebo, patio for our cocktail hour, and second floor ballroom and bridal suite. I’ll try to attach more photos when our professional pictures are finished
Erika
Erika Sent on 08/23/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Mr. & Mrs. Commissiong

The staff at Grand Oaks Country club are amazing. Everything was absolutely perfect!!! They made the night elegant and stress free! The decor was BEAUTIFUL! Thank you for a night to remember.
Laura
Laura Sent on 08/06/2019
5 out of 5 rating

Perfection!

We looked at 9 different venues before we saw Grand Oaks. We weren't married to any place in particular but when we walked in the doors here, we fell in love and had the contract signed within the week. Samantha was our wedding planner and we adored her. She's very organized and quick answers to all our questions. We were paying for the wedding ourselves and Grand Oaks has a payment plan schedule but she worked with us and allowed flexibility which made the whole process manageable!

On the day of our wedding, John was out maitre'd and he was the ultimate crisis manager. First of all, we mentioned to him the day before that Miller Light was a favorite beer among our crowd. Turns out that's not a beer they have there. Well I don't know what happened but everyone was drinking Miller Light all night long! The day of, our ceremony was outside and a storm was on it's way. About 45 minutes before the guests arrived, the power went out in the venue but I was never nervous because John was such a professional. He remained calm, kept us updated on the situation and kept us on schedule with our first look. The power was on within 15 minutes! Then the sky started to get REALLY dark. Our buses had arrived so John got everyone seated quickly and we started the ceremony early. The first rain drop fell just as we turned to walk back up the aisle! The timing was perfect and all because the staff was so flexible and organized.

I also have to mention Yvette, our bridal attendant. I am not sure how she was in so many places at once. I felt like she never left my side and when I mentioned it the next day my mom was confused because she said she never left HER side. Same with my wife and bridal party! None of us had an empty glass or plate the entire night. Anyone who had a question, she had the answer.

And I just want to mention the small details. We left pictures and a couple decorations with vague instructions to "scatter them around". When we arrived, everything looked like it been plotted out meticulously for months. We went with minimalist centerpieces and it worked great because their tablescapes are so beautiful in their own. We also had a sweetheart table but didn't think about decorating it. John gathered up all the bouquets and created a gorgeous border for our table. Those little touches really made the night.

For any brides who have booked them already, I will warn the one issue was the tasting. Ours was terrible. And I've heard from others who have had similar experiences. But do not panic, the food day of was awesome. And their desserts are over the top! I can not recommend this venue and the people enough. They are true professionals and whatever your dream wedding looks like, they know how to make it a reality.
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Awards

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WeddingWire Couples' Choice Awards 2020 Winner
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Team

Alyssa Moccia
Alyssa Moccia
Event Planner
Margaret Addivinola
Margaret Addivinola
Director Of Catering

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Grand Oaks Country Club frequently asked questions

Grand Oaks Country Club includes the following items and services for wedding events in its starting site fee:
  • Bridal Suite
  • Chairs
  • China
  • Flatware
  • Linens
  • Parking
  • Tables
Grand Oaks Country Club includes the following items and services in its wedding catering costs:
  • Cake Cutting
  • Dessert
  • Server(s)
  • Wedding Cake
The bar service starting price at Grand Oaks Country Club includes:
  • Bartender(s)
  • House Beer
  • House Wine
The space offered by Grand Oaks Country Club for wedding events is known for:
  • Country/Golf Club
Grand Oaks Country Club offers the following indoor/outdoor options for weddings:
  • Indoor
  • Covered Outdoor
  • Uncovered Outdoor
Grand Oaks Country Club offers the following types of wedding events:
  • Ceremony
  • Reception
  • Bridal Shower
  • Engagement Party
Grand Oaks Country Club offers the following services for wedding events:
  • Bar Services
  • Catering Services
  • Clean Up
  • Event Planner
  • Event Rentals
  • Get Ready Rooms
  • Liability Insurance
  • Outside Vendors
  • Pet Friendly
  • Wifi
Grand Oaks Country Club offers the following furniture and decor items for weddings:
  • Aisle Runners
  • Altar/Arch
  • Audio Equipment
  • Chairs
  • Chair Covers
  • Dance Floor
  • Decor
  • Furniture
  • Lighting
  • Tables
  • Tent Accessories
Grand Oaks Country Club is recommended by 98% of couples who have used their services. Their overall rating is 4.9 out of 5 with the following breakdown: 5 in professionalism, 5 in value, 4.9 in quality of service, 4.9 in average response time and 4.9 in flexibility.

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