I think it is somewhat rude for people to say "am i invited?", "i hope im invited" or "so and so would like to get an invite if there is enough space" because I think it puts the person on the spot to invite that person and its even more awkward if that person was not on the guest list or even thought of for a invite. I just got a FB msg from one of my cousins who I know but we aren't that close and it said "when are we going to get our invite?, you hurt my feelings" How do I respond to that? So I was wondering how do you all tell ppl "no" because I have a hard time telling ppl that and explaining why. being that we are paying for everything and have our money set for our wedding we can't really afford to be the "yes" couple and allow everyone who asks to come to come. So...
What is your way to say no and is it nice or mean or you don't care???