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FutureMrsB (Aussie Bride!)
VIP September 2013

Young brides... under 25!

FutureMrsB (Aussie Bride!), on September 4, 2011 at 2:44 AM

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So where are all of the young brides? I love hearing younger brides stories How old were you when you met? ADD: "Is this different from when you started dating? If so, when did you start dating" How old were you when you got engaged? How old will you be when you get married? What's your best...

So where are all of the young brides? I love hearing younger brides stories Smiley smile

How old were you when you met? ADD: "Is this different from when you started dating? If so, when did you start dating"

How old were you when you got engaged?

How old will you be when you get married?

What's your best advice to other younger brides?

59 Comments

  • Future.Mrs.Mak
    Super March 2013
    Future.Mrs.Mak ·
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    How old were you when you met? 18, 22

    How old were you when you got engaged? 23, 27

    How old will you be when you get married? 24, 28

    What's your best advice to other younger brides? No matter what people say, trust each other and do not settle for LESS! You deserve the best.

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  • Alex
    Dedicated January 2012
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    How old were you when you met? I was 15 and he was 16

    How old were you when you got engaged? I am 18 and he is 19

    How old will you be when you get married? 18 and 19

    What's your best advice to other younger brides? Follow your heart and do what you want to do. Listen wisely but in the end, your decision matters the most.

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  • Amanda
    Savvy June 2012
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    How old were you when you met? I was 18 when I met my FH. Actually for the first year we knew each other he wouldn't really talk to me because he thought I was weird. Man did I prove him wrong! or right? lol we have a running joke now that he still thinks I'm weird, but he says I'm his kind of weird so it's ok.

    How old were you when you got engaged? I was 21 when I got engaged.

    How old will you be when you get married? I will be 22 and fresh out of college when I get married.

    What's your best advice to other younger brides? Don't worry what other people think of your age. If you know he's the one there is no reason to try to please anyone else. If you asked me a year ago I couldn't imagine that in my senior year of college I would be planning my wedding, I like to think of it as I was lucky to find the perfect one so early in my life because that just means I get to spend more time with him Smiley smile

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  • Summer
    Devoted October 2011
    Summer ·
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    How old were you when you met? We were both 17.

    How old were you when you got engaged? Both 21.

    How old will you be when you get married? He is 22 and I will be 22 just 20 days after the wedding.

    What's your best advice to other younger brides? Never go to bed angry, and always kiss goodnight (:

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  • Nik_McAwesomepants
    Master October 2011
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    How old were you when you met? I was 19 and he was 24

    How old were you when you got engaged? I was 20 and he was 25

    How old will you be when you get married? I'm 23 and he's 28

    What's your best advice to other younger brides? Wait lol. If DH wasn't in the military we probably would be waiting until I turn 25 but the Marines don't recognize fiances so *shrugs* here we are. I'd suggest living your own life without FH before deciding to tie your life to another person indefinitely.

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  • Lynsie
    VIP September 2011
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    How old were you when you met? Junior high age, I don't remember exactly which grade we met in. But I was 16, he 18 when we started dating

    How old were you when you got engaged? I was 18, he 20

    How old will you be when you get married? Me 24, he 26

    What's your best advice to other younger brides? There is no rush, seriously. Make sure that you are where you want to be in life when you get married. If you two are meant to be together, you will, no matter if you marry within a year or so after dating, or after 8 years of dating like us. I was a junior in high school when we started dating. I then went off to college and law school. We knew we wanted to be together and knew we would eventually get married. We just wanted to be smart about all of it and make sure life was stable before we decided to take the leap to marriage. We don't regret waiting for a minute and are extremely happy with where we are in life.

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  • Nicole
    Devoted September 2012
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    How old were you when you met? We went to school together, but when we started dating I was 14 he was 15.

    How old were you when you got engaged? I was 23 he was 24

    How old will you be when you get married? I will be 24 he will be 25

    What's your best advice to other younger brides? Don't rush into anything! As a lot of other brides have said you change a lot during your college days. Don't be afraid to do it if you know that is the guy you want to marry!

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  • Evelyn
    Devoted October 2011
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    I was 16 and he was 17 when we met. I was 17 and he was 18 when we started dating. I was 23 and he was 24 when we got engaged. We will both be 25 when we get married next month. My advice for young brides is to take it slow, there are times when you have to be very serious in your relationship but never forget to have fun. My FH and I dated 6yrs before we got engaged and even know when things get stressful with the all the planning, we make time for each other to go out and have sum fun. It's ok to be a kid once in a while! Smiley smile

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  • Andrea
    VIP May 2012
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    How old were you when you met? I was 19 & FH was 27 (we didn't start dating until we were 20 & 28)

    How old were you when you got engaged? I was 22 (a few days before my 23rd birthday) & he was 30.

    How old will you be when you get married? I will be 24 & he will be 32.

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  • K
    Savvy September 2011
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    Highschool sweethearts! Starting dating when I was 17 he was 16. Engaged at 19 and 18. Getting married in 18 days, just after my 24th bday, he is 23. We have lived together for 5 years, I am glad we waited to get married. We both know exactly what to expect because we have already been doing it for so long. Also, we both have good jobs now and are able to pay for a beautiful wedding with no help!

    I agree with other posts, make sure you get to know each other before you tie the knot. My sister rushed into a marriage at 19 to her "highschool sweetheart" and now at 26 she is divorced. I'm not saying it never works, I'm just saying give yourselves time to mature.

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  • Mrs. Moore
    Expert December 2011
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    How old were you when you met? I was 20 and he was 19(turned 20 the next month).

    How old were you when you got engaged? I was 21(turned 22 the next month) and he was 21.

    How old will you be when you get married? I will be 23 and he will be 22.

    What's your best advice to other younger brides? Have a long engagement, and live together before you get married! You will learn so much more about the other person if you live together.

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  • IndianBride
    Expert April 2012
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    Hello gals, I'm a bit older but I still wanted to share some advice.

    How old were you when you met? HS, we were both 16

    How old were you when you got engaged? Both=27 - we've been going out for 7/8 years

    How old will you be when you get married? Both=28

    What's your best advice to other younger brides? I agree with all the other advice! My main thing is - trust and believe in yourself before you commit to life with someone else. If you don't value yourself, your insecurity will be an obstacle and hurt the relationship. I have a wonderful fiance who was ready to get married when we were 22/23, but I didn't know how to be happy with myself then.

    It took me some time, and ups and downs in life to gain self-confidence. Age doesn't really matter if you truly value yourself and have confidence in who you are. Your relationship and life will be much stronger with your partner then. If YOU see yourself as an equal, then your partnership will be equal.

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  • That one chick who's married to that one dude
    Master April 2012
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    How old were you when you met? I was about 15 and he was closer to 17.

    How old were you when you got engaged? I was 23 and he was 24

    How old will you be when you get married? I will be 25 and he will be 27.

    What's your best advice to other younger brides? Take your time in your relationship. Who I was when we first met is not the same person today. Make sure you are going through the same path which will cause less stress and the less people in your business, the better.

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  • Alyssa
    Expert July 2012
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    How old Were we when we met? I was 16, he was 18

    How old were we when we got engadged? I was 21 he was 23

    How old will we be when we get married? I will be 22 he will be 24

    My advice is to have trust.... trust is huge.. If you can't enjoy a night out without eachother, worry free.... then you might want to rethink the whole marrige idea! Also continue to be an individual once in a while... you are a team, but its okay to make a play on your own here and there. (meaning) Have your own beliefs, and ideas, you and your FH may not always agree on certain things, but its good to have calm arguements on eachothers stances! its good to have a disagrement!

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  • Tausha
    Devoted September 2012
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    How old were you when you met? i was 15 he was 18

    How old were you when you got engaged? i was 21 he was 25

    How old will you be when you get married? i will be 23 he will be 26

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  •  Mrs.Watson
    Expert February 2012
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    I was 20 and he was 24...when we got engaged I was 22 and he was 26 and when we gwt married I will be 23 and he will be 27 because his birthday is Nov 6. I love my hunny

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  • Jessica
    Master July 2012
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    What if the bride is "old" and the groom is "young"? ;-D

    How old when we met - Bride - 26, Groom 19.

    Age when we started dating - Bride 27, Groom 20.

    Engaged - Bride 30, Groom 23.

    Age when married - Bride 31, Groom 24.

    Obviously, my groom-to-be taught me that age and maturity are extremely different things, and while I cringe when I think that I'm going to be 31 and he's going to be 24 on our wedding day, I have no doubts that he can provide for our household or be a great Dad in a couple of years. I've dated guys that were 5 years older than him, and 10 years less mature. I wasn't ready to get married at 24, but he definitely is.

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  • Jalyn
    Dedicated August 2019
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    We met at 21 and 23, got engaged on my 24th Birthday and got married a year later at 24 and 26. I turned 25 the day after. I don’t really consider myself a “young bride”, just younger than the average age but so you. People get marries young and have lasting marriages. Just make sure you are ready and feel it is right. Follow your gut. research and read about marriage. there are a lot of articles on married life and preparation for it. Take advantage.
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