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Master October 2017

Would you let OOT friends stay at your house after wedding?

Must Love Cats, on April 15, 2017 at 6:07 PM

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We are having quite a few OOT family and friends come to the wedding. FH's best friend and his girlfriend live in Vancouver. FH is paying for their hotel stay as the ticket prices are high. We don't know how long they'll intend to stay. I have a good friend in California coming. She wants to come in...

We are having quite a few OOT family and friends come to the wedding. FH's best friend and his girlfriend live in Vancouver. FH is paying for their hotel stay as the ticket prices are high. We don't know how long they'll intend to stay. I have a good friend in California coming. She wants to come in on Saturday and fly out Wednesday night. My house is small with 2 bedrooms and 1 bathroom. I know FH rarely sees his friends and same goes for me. Would you extend an invitation to either? I have a twin air mattress but would have to spend money on a queen air mattress, additional pillows, mattress pad and a bed set. I think it's cheaper if I helped out with a night for his friends which would be $139 instead of spending money on those things. FH would prefer his friends stay a night after the wedding and my friend stay a night after they leave, but again I don't know when that would be. Nor do I think it would be fair to have my friend stay at the hotel the whole time. What would you do?

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  • Must Love Cats
    Master October 2017
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    FH would love to spend time with his best friend as he is on the opposite side of his country but so are a few of mine. I told my friends I could spend a couple days after the wedding with them but after a couple days that's my time with my husband since I rarely see him for that long. He's taking off a week. I'll have to talk to FH more. I live alone and I like that (not counting FH when he visits) but I don't like sharing my space during this time in such a small house. I'll just help him with a night for his friends. I want FH happy too but I don't want anyone here.

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  • Meaghan
    VIP April 2017
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    God no.

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