I'm on the fence on whether to invite a college friend to the wedding. We were pretty close in college. We had a two-year falling out while I was in law school, but then re-connected after I graduated. When I got engaged in March of 2017, I was excited to tell her and she seemed genuinely happy for me (she mentioned planning a shower). I'll admit that for about a month after I got engaged I talked the wedding a lot--more than I'm sure she cared to hear about. Being on WW has taught me that no one cares about my wedding as much as I do--I get that now.
I haven't spoken to her on the phone since April and we haven't had a text conversation since May (which really was just a "hey, how are you?" type conversation). I texted her in June to see how she was and I got no reply. I messaged her on Instagram in October--again no reply. We like each other's photos on Instagram and Facebook. That's pretty much the extent of our friendship at this point.
We have very limited seating at our wedding. I feel like not inviting her would probably end the friendship. I guess my question is given the circumstances, would you invite her? Do you have some sort of rule that you've created for yourself where you don't invite people you haven't spoken to in the last 6 months? Year?
