Whose parents are more involved in the planning? Your parents or your fiancé(e)'s?

My mom to be exact! As being the only daughter she’s all excited!

Neither- we both have been doing our own thing for so long both of our sets of parents just said "congrats" and that's about it

Neither really. Every once in a while I’ll ask my mom for her opinion but my dad just wants to show up and give me away

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Awww really? That's so sweet though!!

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That's awesome!! I'm glad she's been helpful rather than overbearing! Wow that's a big move, did they want to be closer to you?

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I'm so sorry to hear that. But yes on the bright side, I'm so glad to hear that you have her there to help you along the way!

My soon to be in laws are way more involved then mine. This is there only son's wedding and they want to go all out.

My mom has been giving me ideas but we are moving in with his parents soon for a fresh start in a new place so I think his mom will help out a lot. Plus she’s got a cricut ! Lol

I would have to say his family.

You know i think i would have to say his by default because my foster parents live far away one of my birth parents are like 6 states a way and the other hates my fiancee.

Mine are, but only by default. Before my fiancé's mom passed away, I kept her in the loop of the things we were looking at, and she was super interested and always had great input I'm currently looking for tasteful ideas to honor both of his parents at our wedding if anyone has any suggestions!

My parents are more involved. I think it is because I am having our wedding back at my hometown. So its easier for them to help

Hmmmmm I would say mine but it’s pretty close

Mine. All the way

Definitely his mom. My family live in another state. My mom is just now starting to show a tiny amount of interest now that we have a date set. My fiancé is an only child so his mom never had a daughter of her own but I’m basically her daughter and have been for awhile now. Ever since we bought our house and moved out she’s been a sweetheart. His mom does so much for us. It’s awkward in a way but the three of us have a tight bond. I love that she’s close with us since that was not always the case. She already bought the dress she plans on wearing for the wedding Lol. She’s a big help though. She talks to a lot of people and gathers information for me. Plus, she decided to pay for our wedding completely so we give a little bit of room for how things will go but she mostly wants it our way. She claims to love our ideas and loves how creative we are getting. My fiancé is actually helping me plan it which is nice to have his opinion

I would say both are involved equally but since my parents are here they can help more.

My parents are, but they're paying for a large chunk of the wedding so I expected nothing less.

My parents are, since they live locally, whereas her mom lives overseas and her dad isn’t really in the picture. But we’ve kind of kicked them out of the planning process, because my mom can get really pushy with the type of wedding she thinks we should have. She means well but her strong suggestions are unwanted.

My parents are more involved!

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Oh no!! Hopefully she's been helpful with some of her insight and not trying to take over your wedding! But I totally understand what you are saying about your mom, my mom and me are the same way, she's already accepted that my wedding will be vastly different than what hers was!