Whose parents are more involved in the planning? Your parents or your fiancé(e)'s?

My Mom

His mother is helping me plan the whole thing my parents don’t even want to be here for the wedding so at least I have a supportive future mother in law right?

Definitely mine.

It is pretty equal between his mom and mine, I constantly am asking my moms opinion especially now that she lives with us but his mom lives next door to us so we will talk to her often about plans too.

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Whatever works best for you and your fiance!! I know some people don't like having their parents involved with the whole process!

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Oh my gosh, why not?! What does she want to wear to the wedding instead?

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Oh no! Did it turn out being a scam?

View Quoted Comment I'm not very close with his mother at all, and my mother really can't afford to helo, so I don't want to stress her out.

View Quoted Comment I think it'll be easier this way, and I know we will actually have the wedding we want.

Neither. We are doing this 100% on our own and won't accept outside money. We don't want anyone influencing our choices. But overall, his parents are definitely more interested in our wedding.

My dad is more involved than his mom. Honestly...I'm not even sure that he has told her we set a date yet

Definitely my parents are more involved in the wedding. But I hope his help out soon.

His mother is on top of me involved in this wedding! Has been since day ☝. Anything she has to say to me usually involves the wedding and how she'd do this or that. Im thankful for her insight but she's making me tired of my own wedding! As for my mom, she is excited, she just knows this is my big day and that her and my style clashes. My wedding is also still 9 months away so she is waiting to really involve herself till a little closer to date.

Neither of our parents were really that involved in our planning. They left all of the planning to us which was really fortunate (because I've definitely read horror stories on here!). The only thing is my parents did voice opinions on adding certain guests to our guest list which worked out in the end and was fine by us and we had room for.

Neither. Both of our parents live out of state and we are having the wedding where we live. I have to say it's kind of rough not having extra help...

My dad and his mom are both pretty involved. But I’d say his mom is a bit more involved.

Both are super involved!

Kelly idk what shes thinking. She isn't the most supportive of the wedding like I thought she would be since she was always asking me when the big day was before we were engaged. Oh well. She lives in another state 12 hours away so I try not to let it get to me

Neither really. If I had to pick it would be his, but it's really just the two of us involved.

Definitely mine, but that’s mostly because I don’t get along super well with FH’s mom and I talk to mine about everything. FH and I have the final say in everything but my mom has accompanied me on venue visits when FH is working (I work days he works evenings), shares my wedding pinterest board, etc.