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Who to take wedding dress shopping???

nakia, on March 28, 2017 at 11:26 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 21

I would like ideas on who to take wedding dress shopping I was thinking my sister, sister in law, my mom (who I do not get along with), his mom , my aunt?? Is that to many opinions?

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Latest activity by TeamGrz, on March 28, 2017 at 2:03 PM
  • NewlyMrsLachney
    Master September 2017
    NewlyMrsLachney ·
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    I only took three folks with me the first time. My Man of Honor, Matron of Honor, and my Mother. Make sure you check with your shop first--mine did not allow more than three 'viewers' as it's a smaller, more boutique experience.

    Remember those people can always accompany you on fittings.

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  • LikeBerry
    Expert April 2018
    LikeBerry ·
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    My first dress appointment is next week, and I'm bringing three people: my mom, my aunt who is basically my sister, and my MOH.

    I'd recommend picking the people who know you the best and who you trust not to steamroll your decisions. I want their opinions, but I don't want anyone trying to talk me out of or into something.

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  • Sasha
    Super April 2017
    Sasha ·
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    I took my mom. We had a blast!

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  • FutureMrsComo
    Super October 2018
    FutureMrsComo ·
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    If you don't get along with your mom, why not a friend.. or just the sister and sister in law? I think fewer numbers (and people you do get along with) would make it easier to make a decision.

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  • LauraR
    VIP June 2017
    LauraR ·
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    I took my mom, sister in law, and grandma. Keep in mind FMIL doesn't have to go. Unless you do really want her to. I felt a little guilty but got over it pretty fast.

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  • J
    Dedicated September 2017
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    Maybe just 2 people who you are really close with.

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  • BeachBride2016
    Master November 2016
    BeachBride2016 ·
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    It was just my mom and me. We had planned to go to this store just to get ideas and try on some dresses b/c I had another appt the next day where my mom and 2 of my BMs were coming along. Low and behold - we found THE DRESS at the first store, and since it was an off-the-rack shop I couldn't just put it on hold b/c that wasn't an option. So we bought it and cancelled the next day's appt. I was a little bummed that I missed out on the experience of having some friends there, but it's even more special that it was a moment just my mom and I got to experience together.

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  • Teresa
    Super September 2017
    Teresa ·
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    I took my mom and 2 of my 4 bridesmaids were able to come. When my bestfriend got married she only took me.

    If you don't have the best relationship with your mom then it might not be a good idea to invite her. If you're close with your sister and FSIL maybe you could just ask them?

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  • Jesikah
    VIP October 2017
    Jesikah ·
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    My first Appt I was my sis and I. My second my mom joined. We don't have a BP. I wanted my MIL there but she lives in another country. I'd stick too as little as possible. Maybe ask your mom If she wants to join, but I wouldn't pressure here. Especially if you guys don't get along. At least you can say you invited her. If she chooses not to go, that's her decision. However it leaves room to say at least I invited.

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  • B&T2Be
    Expert September 2017
    B&T2Be ·
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    Yourself. Checkout stores and narrow down your selections. Invite your mom or sister to have a second opinion if you like.

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  • ModernDayBride
    Super January 2018
    ModernDayBride ·
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    I took my mom and grandma

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  • Mandypants
    Super May 2017
    Mandypants ·
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    First time I tried on dresses was very informal. I was just with my mom. When I legit made an appointment, I took my mom, my sister, my cousin (MOH) and aunt. I recommend keeping it small and making sure at least one person will be totally honest with you.

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  • Mandy
    Devoted October 2017
    Mandy ·
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    I took my mom, sister (MOH), FMIL, and my aunt

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  • Seth'sGirl
    Expert August 2017
    Seth'sGirl ·
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    I brought my mom, my future mother in law, my MOH and one of my close bridesmaids.

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  • Mrs. C
    Expert March 2017
    Mrs. C ·
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    I went alone. No drama, no conflicting opinions, and it made it so much easier to pick a dress I really loved. 10/10, would recommend.

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  • Jessica
    Expert June 2017
    Jessica ·
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    It's up to you. I took my Grandma, Aunt, Mom, and MOH.

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  • It's going to be "Good"
    VIP September 2017
    It's going to be "Good" ·
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    I took my mom initially and then my girls when I made the final decision.

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  • Amanda
    Super September 2017
    Amanda ·
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    I took my sister (MOH), mom, FSIL, FMIL, and my grandmother. Really who you take is dependent on your relationship with them. I took more than most but they all know me very well and I knew they'd be honest.

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  • Beecham2Barrows
    VIP December 2020
    Beecham2Barrows ·
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    I'm taking my Jr. Bridesmaids only ( my 11 & 10 year old daughters! ) Kids are honest!

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  • K
    Just Said Yes October 2018
    Kaitlin ·
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    I went first with just my MOH. I didn't know what styles and silhouettes would look good on me. It was stress free and fun. When I narrowed down options for "the one" I made another appointment and brought my mom, dad, MIL, and MOH. I got to have a happy syttd moment without hearing any negative comments. It was nice!

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