I've made it clear from day 1 of planning that our wedding would be adult only and that I would be happy to help from babysitters, it's been fine with everyone. This morning I get a text from my childless aunt saying "You don't think they have seen their parents have a drink? So you have basically mandated that one parent stays home with the kids. You're funny. You don't want true adults at your wedding, just young adults with no real responsibility. Why don't you just say that?"
Seriously?! Most of my friends HAVE kids! I just want a night to kick back and enjoy the evening with my friends and family where no one has to worry about their little ones getting into something or leaving early because it's the kiddos bed time. GRRR!