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Who said it? - "My wedding, oops I mean our wedding"

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Who is guilty of referring to the wedding as "my wedding'? Spill the beans!!

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Latest activity by Natalia, on June 14, 2019 at 5:26 PM
  • FutureMrsKC
    Master January 2019
    FutureMrsKC ·
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    Me, unfortunately.

    I've said it a few times to my mother or someone else really close when I was frustrated with planning and I always corrected myself when I realized I sounded selfish.

    When talking to FH I have always called it our wedding, even stressed out.

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  • Kelsey
    Devoted September 2018
    Kelsey ·
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    I made the mistake of saying that to my FH yesterday, and he quickly corrected me. Whoops!

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  • Jennifer
    Master September 2018
    Jennifer ·
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    FH says it all the time when he talks to other people, but to me it's our wedding.

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  • DC Wife 10.27.18
    Master October 2018
    DC Wife 10.27.18 ·
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    I've said it but usually to my friends. They don't care. LOL

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  • Jayla
    Champion October 2025
    Jayla ·
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    Lol it happens!!

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  • Jayla
    Champion October 2025
    Jayla ·
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    I think it's a habit to do this with anything that involves two people!! Weddings and babies especially lol!

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  • Brandi
    Dedicated May 2019
    Brandi ·
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    Neither, we are a team in this 100%
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  • Laura
    VIP November 2019
    Laura ·
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    I’ve slipped up once or twice. Not in front of FH. But when we disagree on a wedding detail we’ll tease each claiming it’s ‘my wedding’ and we’re getting our own way.
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  • Heather
    Dedicated April 2019
    Heather ·
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    This would be me😂
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  • K
    Savvy November 2018
    Kasha ·
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    First time I said my wedding, I got an eye. Afterward it was just yes honey it's your wedding, whatever 🤣🤣🤣
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  • Jayla
    Champion October 2025
    Jayla ·
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    Oh no, not the eye lol!!!!

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  • S
    Just Said Yes December 2018
    Selena ·
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    Me unfortunally. I have been planning most of it on my own while he has been deployed over seas.
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  • Kayla
    Expert January 2019
    Kayla ·
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    Sadly me, he always refers to it as our wedding and I'm working on it! When I've put so much energy into all of the DIY's which are my projects it's unfortunately easy to call it my wedding!
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  • Randa
    Devoted October 2018
    Randa ·
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    I say my wedding all the time. He doesn't care. He knows I am the one doing all the vendor paperwork, I am the one DIYing everything I am the one with a notebook with organized payments and blah blah so he lets me do my thing lol he told me to just tell him when to show up! He's so easy going. THANK GOODNESS.

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  • Brae
    VIP September 2019
    Brae ·
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    I say my wedding to other people, but that's cause it sounds weird to say "our" if hes not there. If hes present I say our. But to each other, when I ask for his advice he says "whatever you want" to most things so I tell him its "our wedding"
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  • AlmostAMurphy
    Devoted November 2018
    AlmostAMurphy ·
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    My fiancé saw my count down that says “Skylar’s Wedding” and he was joking around and said “Oh, just your wedding? Not ours?” 😂 I changed it to Murphy’s Wedding. I normally just refer it to “The” wedding, rather than mine or ours. Lol
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  • Kendall
    Dedicated August 2019
    Kendall ·
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    I do it allllll the time. And when FH corrects me my response is if it’s ours it’s half mine so I can call it mine and he usually just giggles with me.
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  • Ashley
    VIP December 2018
    Ashley ·
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    I actually get corrected to the opposite. I'll say "our" wedding and FH will say it's my wedding! It's as a joke, but he really don't have any input so it's funny for us lol

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  • Lunajay
    Super August 2022
    Lunajay ·
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    We both are good by saying "The wedding" Or someone FH will say "your day".
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  • R
    Devoted September 2018
    Robbi ·
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    All the time! lol. He hasn't helped with much planning at all (which, really, for us, totally works! I prefer it that way)

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