Just to be clear, I am not involved in the planning of the bachelorette party. My MOH is my sister, and she has been presenting ideas to me to get a sense of what I might like to do.
She suggested dinner and a comedy club. I asked her if she was expecting the guests to pay, and it was obvious that was the case. I suggested that the guests not be expected to pay, as they are not the hosts.
Please back me up on this. I don't want to come off as being unnecessarily bossy.