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Kat
Dedicated May 2017

Who on here made bridesmaids buy their own dress?

Kat, on May 18, 2017 at 5:24 PM

Posted in Wedding Attire 101

I was just wondering how many brides on here made their bridesmaids pay for their own dress? Let me know! Thanks in advance!

I was just wondering how many brides on here made their bridesmaids pay for their own dress? Let me know! Thanks in advance! Smiley smile

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  • caitlin
    Super May 2017
    caitlin ·
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    Yeah, mine all bought their own, and i told them what colour family i wanted them in but beyond that they could choose whatever they wanted. i'm paying for most of our hair and makeup costs on the day though (they offered to kick in a bit of those costs which was super kind). i've been a BM a few times and always paid for my own dress. definitely nice to help a friend out though if you're in a position to do so and it helps them feel more secure.

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  • A
    Beginner September 2016
    Angeline ·
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    Mine all bought their own dresses for my wedding. I just gave them a color palette and said get whatever you feel comfortable in

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  • Constance
    VIP October 2017
    Constance ·
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    Don't they always? That's like the only expectation associated with being a bridesmaid.

    ETA: If you can swing it, can you cover her room and gas money? That is not necessary, but would be incredibly nice of you. She should have brought up cost earlier though.

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  • A
    Devoted June 2017
    ashley ·
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    I think now a days it's pretty regular for the BM to pay for their own attire

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  • Mrs Abbey
    VIP July 2017
    Mrs Abbey ·
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    Mine purchased their own but I told them the color it had to be.

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  • Nicole
    Devoted August 2017
    Nicole ·
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    Mine paid for theirs. I don't feel I "made" them I guess I just expected it. I've always paid for mine when in a friends wedding.

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  • Amanda
    Devoted June 2018
    Amanda ·
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    All of my bridesmaids paid for their dresses

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  • TP2
    Expert July 2017
    TP2 ·
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    Our BMs paid for their own dresses. I thought this was standard.

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  • Beachy
    VIP November 2017
    Beachy ·
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    We are exchanging favors really. My friend is getting married 2 mos before I do. I am buying my dress for her wedding and vice versa. Our BP will be paying for their own rentals/purchases. As others have said, its totally customary.

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  • M
    Dedicated May 2017
    Maranda ·
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    I bought all my bridal parties but most are underage minus maid of honor and best man

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  • emily
    Expert July 2017
    emily ·
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    My girls have paid for their dresses. I'm paying for hair and make up. our groomsmen have bought their shirts & pants and wearing whatever brown shoes they own. We bought their ties

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  • Espadas
    Devoted June 2018
    Espadas ·
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    I'm buying my dress for my best friend's wedding (I'm MOH), and I am having my bridesmaids purchase theirs.

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  • Jacqui
    Super June 2018
    Jacqui ·
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    That's the standard....

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  • OctoberBrideeee
    Super October 2017
    OctoberBrideeee ·
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    Yes, my BMs all paid for their own dresses. I offered to pay for their makeup, although it's not required and some chose to do their own.

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  • Krystle
    Devoted September 2017
    Krystle ·
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    My bridesmaids are paying for their own dresses

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  • Private User
    Beginner September 2017
    Private User ·
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    I have paid for ALL the bridesmaid dresses for all the weddings that I have been asked to do.

    There are others costs associated with saying Yes to being in the bridal party and it can definitely add up; I feel like this something people should just know, but I'm certain there is going to be 'that person(s)' who just don't.

    I thought I would be okay with having them wear different dresses, and I am surprised that I am now leaning the other way. We have been dress shopping and we're approaching $300. I don't wanna go more than that. To buffer the cost of the dress, I have decided to gift my bridesmaids with Hair & Makeup, along with putting together small gift boxes with functional-nice items (Aveda Essential Oils, travel candles, notes about the HM).

    I am cashing in on all my resources (points, miles, work benefits/discounts, etc).

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  • KatieMBY
    VIP January 2018
    KatieMBY ·
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    My BM's and the groomsmen are all paying for or renting their attire. I'm buying their earrings and a gift.

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  • SweetAugustBride
    Super August 2018
    SweetAugustBride ·
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    I had to pay for my dress when I was a bridesmaid. We all bought whatever she picked out.

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  • RAG
    Super November 2017
    RAG ·
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    They are paying for their own dress and shoes ( I don't care as long as it's in the silver color). I'm letting them wear their own jewelry and they will decide if they want hair and makeup done.

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  • LPbride
    Devoted August 2017
    LPbride ·
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    My bridesmaids are buying their own dresses (I just gave them a color). I'm making hair and makeup optional and buying all of them nice gifts (not sure yet, will personalize for each as if it were a bday).

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