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Are you the decisive one in the relationship? Or do you spend forever weighing your options?
It depends on what's being decided on. I'm a total planner, so when it comes to wedding planning or travel plans, I usually make the decision, but if it comes to something like picking a place for dinner, I'm more indecisive.
I'd say that we are both very decisive when it is something we care about, and not so much with things that aren't as important. (Wedding example - we struggled to pick decor because its not as important to us, but we both knew our caterer was the one immediately after the tasting)
He is more decisive. I have to literally review all of my opitions (no matter how many their are) and narrow them down from there. It takes me a long time to pick movies on Netflix. I also over think abut what he wants and he will never tell me what he likes so I force him to make the decisions now.
FH is definitely more decisive. He tries to give me time to come to decisions but eventually he ends up make the final ones. I have no issues with it either. I drive myself nuts with my indecisiveness.