Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Who is more decisive?

Lynnie, on May 28, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 384

Are you the decisive one in the relationship? Or do you spend forever weighing your options? Who is more decisive? You or your fiancé(e)? Photo by Mariah Elise Photography in Brookings, SD Next Question: Who's in charge of dealing with spiders? Back to the Beginning: You or your fiancé(e)? ...

Are you the decisive one in the relationship? Or do you spend forever weighing your options?

Who is more decisive? You or your fiancé(e)?


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384 Comments

  • Tabitha
    Beginner October 2019
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    Definitely him 😆
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  • Fenja
    VIP August 2021
    Fenja ·
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    He is! I have to think things through and end up taking waaay too long with my decisions!

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  • Madyson
    Beginner September 2019
    Madyson ·
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    I think that it depends on WHAT we're deciding, but for the most part, I think I make most of the decisions Smiley smile

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  • Amanda
    Beginner May 2021
    Amanda ·
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    He is. I’m SUPER indecisive about everything.
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  • Diana
    VIP December 2019
    Diana ·
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    Sometimes BOTH!!!
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  • Nickole
    Just Said Yes December 2019
    Nickole ·
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    Hes a little more only when he wants it but im the one who looks at the educated side
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  • Lauren
    VIP February 2020
    Lauren ·
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    It depends on what's being decided on. I'm a total planner, so when it comes to wedding planning or travel plans, I usually make the decision, but if it comes to something like picking a place for dinner, I'm more indecisive.

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  • Katie
    Dedicated April 2021
    Katie ·
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    I am more decisive but not by much. We struggle to make big choices because of What ifs, but the choices I can’t make he usually can and the ones he can’t I can. Great team
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  • Kristen
    VIP June 2020
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    I'd say that we are both very decisive when it is something we care about, and not so much with things that aren't as important. (Wedding example - we struggled to pick decor because its not as important to us, but we both knew our caterer was the one immediately after the tasting)

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  • Charles
    Beginner February 2020
    Charles ·
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    Hands down, that would be me.

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  • Bree
    Dedicated November 2019
    Bree ·
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    He is more decisive. I have to literally review all of my opitions (no matter how many their are) and narrow them down from there. It takes me a long time to pick movies on Netflix. I also over think abut what he wants and he will never tell me what he likes so I force him to make the decisions now.

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  • Tonia
    Expert October 2019
    Tonia ·
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    FH is definitely more decisive. He tries to give me time to come to decisions but eventually he ends up make the final ones. I have no issues with it either. I drive myself nuts with my indecisiveness.

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  • Sarah Eliza
    Dedicated May 2022
    Sarah Eliza ·
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    He’s very decisive.
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  • Anna
    Master June 2020
    Anna ·
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    I am. He wants to shop around. If I like something, no need to search any longer.
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  • Kamele
    Just Said Yes November 2019
    Kamele ·
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    He is for sure lol
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  • EllieRose
    Expert February 2020
    EllieRose ·
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    Me, unless we are deciding what to eat, then it's him haha

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  • Danielle
    Dedicated October 2019
    Danielle ·
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    We are pretty Equal on this one 😌
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  • Christina
    Dedicated September 2020
    Christina ·
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    I am the most indecisive person ever! So he’s definitely the decisive one
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  • Danielle
    Master June 2019
    Danielle ·
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    I am extremely indecisive, so FH is definitely the decisive one.

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  • MD
    Super July 2019
    MD ·
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    Definitely me. He is just so go-with-the-flow it drives me nuts sometimes.

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