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Lynnie
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Who is more decisive?

Lynnie, on May 28, 2019 at 11:05 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 387

Are you the decisive one in the relationship? Or do you spend forever weighing your options?

Who is more decisive? You or your fiancé(e)?


Who is more decisive? 1

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387 Comments

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    It depends. I hate making small choices (ie. what's for dinner) but when it comes to big decisions or purchases, I really like to weigh out the options and do my research before picking.

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  • Future Mrs. K
    VIP June 2019
    Future Mrs. K ·
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    Definitely me.

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  • Formerbride
    VIP June 2019
    Formerbride ·
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    This is hard. I feel like FH doesn't really make decisions. So he's technically not indecisive lol. I can definitely be wishy washy sometimes. I'd say it's a tie.
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  • Heather
    Expert April 2020
    Heather ·
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    I think my FH is more decisive, however, he changes his mind a lot.

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  • Ginsteeca
    Expert June 2019
    Ginsteeca ·
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    It depends on what it is but overall he's slightly more decisive than I am.

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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2020
    Kelsey ·
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    I think FH is more decisive than me. Once he makes up his mind he is done lol!

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  • Brianna N
    Super October 2019
    Brianna N ·
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    FH definitely! Especially when it comes to small things. I'll spend an hour in a store debating on which color tank top to get... Smiley xd

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  • Danica
    Dedicated October 2019
    Danica ·
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    He hardly makes decisions. He always leaves it up to me 😂
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  • Mrs. Allen
    Savvy November 2025
    Mrs. Allen ·
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    I depends on what we are deciding on

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  • Paula
    Beginner November 2019
    Paula ·
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    I am the more decisive one. He weighs out everything and takes his time deciding.
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  • Allie
    Master August 2019
    Allie ·
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    He is. He usually has no trouble pulling the trigger on decisions. I'm more thoughtful when it comes to decision-making.

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  • Mrs. H
    Master September 2019
    Mrs. H ·
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    I am definitely more decisive when it comes to planning something, but when it comes to choosing say, a restaurant to eat or something to do on a whim - that's where/when I struggle

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  • Shaniece
    Just Said Yes November 2021
    Shaniece ·
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    I can say he is.
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  • Alisha
    Rockstar April 2021
    Alisha ·
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    It all depends on the situation whether or not decisive or if I have to weigh my options
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  • SraDeCarrillo
    Super August 2019
    SraDeCarrillo ·
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    He is. At least he seems to quickly make a decision. I prefer to research and decide first.

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  • Jessica
    Master September 2020
    Jessica ·
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    It depends on what the decision is about, but in general him.
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  • Jennifer
    Super October 2020
    Jennifer ·
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    We are both super indecisive, but I would say I am more decisive than FH is
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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
    Jasmine ·
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    We are both equally bad at making decisions so I'll call this one a draw lol

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  • Ashley
    Savvy October 2020
    Ashley ·
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    If you ask him this question he will say he is 100%, but the truth is that he is just as indecisive as me. When he can't make a decision he likes to act it's me that can't. His favorite thing to do is ask me where I want to eat. E refuses to make a decision but love tp say I can never make a choice. He'll say he doesn't care where. If I chose a place he'll suggest another place. So I say fine option b. Then he hits me with, "It's whatever you want. I don't care." Okay, option A. "You sure you don't want B?" Fine then B. "I don't care where we go. We can go where ever you want." Obviously it matters to you.
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  • Kristin
    Super November 2019
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    He is, I have to go through every possible outcome before I even come close to a decision.

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