Ok, Im editing this a little. I realize that everyone who is at the rehearsal should be invited to the dinner. For purposes of the rehearsal dinner, fmil said the parents and the wedding party (plus spouses) could be invited. So, obviously me and fh, our mohs(2), his Bm and 1 Gm. But what about my personal attendant, the reader, the pianist? Do they count as being in the wedding party? Do these people come to the rehearsal?