Lynnie
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Which came first? Bach Party or Bridal Shower?

Lynnie, on November 12, 2019 at 12:22 PM

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Which pre-wedding party is up first on your calendar?? Which one is coming up first? Your bach party? 🍾 Or your shower? ☔ Katie Grant Photography Next Question: Cake or Cake Topper? Back to the Beginning: Which came first?

Which pre-wedding party is up first on your calendar??

Which one is coming up first? Your bach party? 🍾 Or your shower?


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Next Question: Cake or Cake Topper?

Back to the Beginning: Which came first?

81 Comments

  • Catherine
    VIP November 2019
    Catherine ·
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    Bach party! i didn't have a bridal shower..

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  • Maggie
    Super April 2020
    Maggie ·
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    Bachelorette party is the weekend before the bridal shower! I didn’t actually know this until this week. My MOH is keeping me in the dark about the bach party
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  • Melissa
    Dedicated July 2021
    Melissa ·
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    Bridal shower
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  • Sweet'N'Rhodes
    Devoted March 2022
    Sweet'N'Rhodes ·
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    Neither. We have no friends to invite, so it would seem a bit pointless. Smiley xd

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  • Amanda
    VIP December 2020
    Amanda ·
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    Bach Party will be in April and Bridal Shower in May so Bach party will come first!

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  • Mandi
    Master October 2020
    Mandi ·
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    Neither are planned yet. 🤷‍♀️
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  • Ema
    Dedicated April 2022
    Ema ·
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    They’ll probably be around the same time, honestly. Neither are planned out yet
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  • Stephanie
    Dedicated March 2020
    Stephanie ·
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    Shower came first...my best friend has been waiting to plan one for me for years.


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  • Stephanie
    Dedicated March 2020
    Stephanie ·
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    Shower but we're combing them together.

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  • Natalie
    Devoted December 2021
    Natalie ·
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    Negative on the Bridal Shower. Going to host an Engagement Party in my fiancé’s home state and then a combined Bach + Bachelorette weekend getaway in Vegas with only close friends that are also attending the wedding!
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  • Jennifer
    Master September 2018
    Jennifer ·
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    Bridal shower was in July Bach party September - wedding September.

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  • Meagan
    Dedicated July 2021
    Meagan ·
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    Bridal shower. Not sure if I'm having a bach party
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  • Jamie
    Expert May 2020
    Jamie ·
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    Bridal shower

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  • Kristie
    Savvy April 2020
    Kristie ·
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    Have yet to decide...
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  • Mandi
    Master October 2020
    Mandi ·
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    Bridal Party - Sunday
    Bachlorette - the following Saturday
    Bridal Shower - the next Saturday
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  • Anna
    VIP October 2020
    Anna ·
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    Neither are scheduled yet. We're doing some talking/thinking about it, but we're also waiting to see how long this COVID shelter-in-place will last. The shower will be simple enough and at my church, but I have no idea about the bach party.

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  • MeetTheRobinsons
    Devoted June 2020
    MeetTheRobinsons ·
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    My surprise shower came first and was quickly cancelled because of COVID-19. I’m not sure if the guys have a bachelor party in the works or not.
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  • Natalia
    Expert October 2020
    Natalia ·
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    I guess bach party. My FH was going to go to a Metal festival in Slovenia, but that got pushed to next year. I had mine at my house, in the backyard (it's a really big yard) with my girls. I don't think we have anything really planned for a shower, yet. I don't even think I want one.

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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
    Mrs. Spring ·
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    Neither. We both dislike being the center of attention.
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  • Ashley
    Super November 2020
    Ashley ·
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    I actually planned these together!

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