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Lynnie
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Which came first? Bach Party or Bridal Shower?

Lynnie, on November 12, 2019 at 12:22 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 81
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Which pre-wedding party is up first on your calendar??

Which one is coming up first? Your bach party? 🍾 Or your shower? ☔


Which came first? Bach Party or Bridal Shower? 1

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81 Comments

Latest activity by Emilia, on July 13, 2021 at 12:17 PM
  • M
    Expert September 2020
    Marcia ·
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    I’m not having either.
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Bridal shower
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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2020
    Kelsey ·
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    We are having a joint bach party in May of 2020, we got the best deal for then and our bridal party could all make it then. I think my mom is planning my shower for June or July.

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    Master January 2015
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    I think my mom is planning the bridal shower for the beginning of January. Not sure about the bach party, my MOH's will probably plan it closer to the wedding date.

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    Devoted October 2021
    Erin ·
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    The current plan is to have the bridal shower first in the spring followed by the bach in the summer but no dates have been set yet so who knows if that will stay the same
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  • Jennifer
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    Jennifer ·
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    My shower is scheduled for February 29th! My MOH (my twin sister, who is hosting) came up with doing it on Leap Day! There is no date set for the bach yet, so I assume it will be after the shower!

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  • Ashley
    Devoted July 2021
    Ashley ·
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    Neither one is planned yet. We still have plenty of time.

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  • Kaylynn
    Dedicated June 2020
    Kaylynn ·
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    The way it's looking I think we're actually doing the Bachelorette party first and then the couples shower a month before the wedding!
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  • Kristal
    Expert February 2020
    Kristal ·
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    I guess bach party or neither? have a low key hang out with the girls the night before but not officially terming it as bach party.

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  • Blair
    Super June 2021
    Blair ·
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    Bachelor party is in June. Bridal shower in September

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  • Ashley
    Savvy September 2020
    Ashley ·
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    Bridal shower in June, combined bach party in July!
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  • Jen
    Super May 2018
    Jen ·
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    Shower was first.

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  • Yoice
    VIP March 2019
    Yoice ·
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    We had bach party first then bridal shower.
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    Devoted July 2020
    Ali ·
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    Neither for either of us. We arent parties so meh
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  • Jill
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    Bach party. I don't think I am going to have a bridal shower due to all my family living in another state as me.

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  • Brianna
    Devoted April 2025
    Brianna ·
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    The shower is coming first
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  • Soni
    Dedicated February 2020
    Soni ·
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    Bachelorette Party. I am not having a bridal shower.

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  • Crystal
    Devoted September 2021
    Crystal ·
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    I believe my shower will come first. My aunt is throwing it and my cousin and I are doing each other’s bachelorette party’s
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  • Erin
    Expert May 2020
    Erin ·
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    Bridal shower, idk if I will be having a bach party...

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  • Arkilia
    Super November 2021
    Arkilia ·
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    Bridal Shower is first.
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