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NotAllWhoWanderAreLost
Master August 2015

When did "the parents" meet?

NotAllWhoWanderAreLost, on June 23, 2014 at 11:03 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 47

I was wondering how close to the wedding did "the parents" meet?

My FH and I have been together for 3 years, but our parents have never met because mine are in GA and his are in IN and we live in OH. I'm pushing for it to happen sooner rather than later, I'm hoping it will help curb any potential wedding drama that could occur just because they don't know each other, and my parents are planning to visit in the next month which could be really convenient to try and plan some sort of get together.

That being said my FH thinks that we should just let them meet at the rehearsal dinner, and doesn't want to try and organize anything.

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Latest activity by E + K, on June 26, 2014 at 7:03 PM
  • DisneyNut
    Master October 2014
    DisneyNut ·
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    My parents have met his Dad but not his mom and they probably won't until the ceremony or maybe the day before (if his mom comes early).

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  • Kate
    Master May 2012
    Kate ·
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    They met when we had been dating for about 10 months--we wanted them to meet, but nothing worked out sooner.

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  • LG
    Master October 2014
    LG ·
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    My mother met his father and gf on a few occasions since hes local. The mothers met around Christmas last year when she came to town for the holidays. We just went to dinner, nothing crazy.

    They can meet at the rehearsal dinner if you would like since its convenient. If BOTH parents had already planned to visit you guys though then you can get something going then. If its going to cause more stress to you and your families, then I wouldn't worry about it.

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  • Kaegurl
    Master June 2014
    Kaegurl ·
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    We've been together 5.5 years. My mom met FH's stepmother at my shower. They'll all officially meet each other Thursday night at the rehearsal. We all live in the same state with my parents living a couple of hours away.

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  • Ashleigh
    Master November 2013
    Ashleigh ·
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    The mothers met at the bridal shower. The rest of the parents, day of the rehearsal.

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  • NotAllWhoWanderAreLost
    Master August 2015
    NotAllWhoWanderAreLost ·
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    Wow, thanks for the responses. Im actually surprised that so many parents met so close to the wedding. My family is from a small town in NY, and now lives in a small town in GA and in both those places it is highly unusual for peoples families not to know each other going into a wedding. So I have felt very odd knowing that our families have never met.

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  • MelissaC
    Master January 2015
    MelissaC ·
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    Our parents live 30 minutes away from each other so they met after we had been together for a year and a half. We got engaged after 3 years together.

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  • Stacy
    VIP August 2014
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    Our parents will most likely never meet. Both our fathers have passed, and my mom lives 1300 miles away, and has no interest in coming to our wedding.

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  • Jemma
    VIP July 2014
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    Ours will meet at the wedding. Most likely literally as people are taking their seats, or possibly even immediately after the ceremony. His parents wanted to meet mine, but mine weren't interested…

    Bit of a sore point!

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  • N
    Master September 2014
    Now I'm Mrs_M ·
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    The first time our families spent a significant amount of time together was when FH and I hosted Thanksgiving at hour house last year. It went really, really well. So 10 months prior to the wedding.

    My mom met FH's mom when I went dress shopping for the first time.

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  • JanuaryWedding
    Super January 2016
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    Ours haven't yet. Though we want to get that all out of the way this summer with a cookout.

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  • Heather A
    Master September 2014
    Heather A ·
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    They will meet a few days before the wedding. They're coming from missisippi 3 days before the wedding. That's when they'll meet.

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  • Samantha
    VIP August 2014
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    His and my parents met years ago...but they want to go to dinner way before the wedding

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  • jillandbill2014
    Expert July 2014
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    Our parents haven't met yet either. My parents are in Ga and his in CO. His mom was planning a trip to GA last summer, she has a brother living close to my parents. So her plan was to visit her brother and maybe have dinner with us and my parents, but her trip didn't work out. So now, the parents will be meeting a few days before the wedding when his parents arrive in GA for the wedding.

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  • Becky
    Super September 2014
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    Our parents all live fairly close to each other & we've been together since last Fall. My mom and his parents met last week at our house inspection, my dad & his wife haven't met them. They'll meet at the wedding.

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  • Caylin C.
    Master August 2015
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    His parents have met my dad on several occasions, but will most likely not meet my mother until the rehearsal dinner. Her and I have a very strained relationship.

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  • Sara
    Expert October 2014
    Sara ·
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    Our parents haven't met yet. We've been together 2.5 years but have known each other for almost 15 years and somehow they've never met. I'm hoping to put it off until closer to the wedding but they are starting to ask so we may do a BBQ at our house this summer.

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  • L
    VIP September 2014
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    Ours will officially meet in person during the wedding weekend Smiley smile. Probably at the rehearsal dinner! Mine are in CA and his are in IL so it's not that easy to arrange something. They unofficially met on Skype after we got engaged, but that's it!

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  • Chelsea
    Super August 2014
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    Ours met with in a year of us being together (going on 7 years). My parents attended a few of FH's races and met his parents there.

    My mom and FMIL are planning stuff together for wedding. Hard to believe some are not meeting until the wedding!

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  • Ariel
    Super October 2014
    Ariel ·
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    Ours will be meeting on July 5th. My FH's parents live in PA, mine live in ME. His parents are coming up for the weekend of the 4th, so we figured that would be a great time to have them get to know each other! Smiley smile

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