Jayla
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What’s your love language?

Jayla, on February 12, 2019 at 11:05 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 48
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How do you express your love for your significant other? Are you all about giving gifts, sharing words of affirmation, spending quality time together, physical touch, or acts of service?

What’s your love language?

What’s your love language? 1

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  • Nemo
    VIP August 2018
    Nemo ·
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    I'm "Words of Affirmation" and H is physical touch!

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  • Mrs. C
    Super May 2019
    Mrs. C ·
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    Mine is definitely physical touch and quality time. My fiance's love language is acts of service and quality time. I tend to lean towards showing affection through touch and quality time and then I sometimes have to check myself and say he doesn't always share the same love language as me. When I am feeling run down, all I want is to be held by him and sometimes he misses that that's what I would like. Instead, he tries to do things for me. In the end its all about communicating to each other what you want and how you best receive love, which takes time and effort.

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  • Alexandra
    VIP June 2019
    Alexandra ·
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    Mine is quality time and FH's is physical touch!

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  • Tara
    Master May 2020
    Tara ·
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    My love language is a mix between words of affirmation and physical touch.
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  • Jayla
    Champion October 2025
    Jayla ·
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    Nice!! I think those are a perfect combination!

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  • Danielle
    Master June 2019
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    I think my love language is a mix of words and time spent together. FH's is definitely physical touch, lol. However, we will be doing our premarital counseling with our Pastor soon, and I am so excited; because learning our love languages is one of the things he will be working with us on.

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  • Sam
    Master August 2024
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    I definitely show my love through acts of service. He's more of the gift giving type! We both love to spend our time together though! Smiley smile

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  • Abby
    VIP March 2019
    Abby ·
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    Mine is quality time! I don't care what we're doing as long as we're spending good quality time together! My fiancé's is physical touch. Sometimes he's the one who just wants to cuddle with me haha!
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  • Alyssa
    Super July 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    Ours is probably words of affirmation but we do a little of all of these.
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  • Rachel
    Dedicated May 2020
    Rachel ·
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    My love language is Acts of Service, and my FH's is Quality Time! We talk about our love languages often, and my FH is really good about understanding mine. When I'm having a bad day, he'll take the dog out or go get dinner for us. Just taking one thing off of my to-do list for the day means the world to me!

    eta: Some people think that their love language is how they SHOW love, but it is actually how they prefer to be SHOWN love!

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  • Keary
    Expert May 2019
    Keary ·
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    I'm words of affirmation and gift giving. FH is acts of service and quality time.
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  • Angerra
    VIP August 2019
    Angerra ·
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    I believe my love language is quality time and my fiance's is physical touch.
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  • Desiree
    Savvy August 2019
    Desiree ·
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    Mine is quality time and physical touch and my fiancé’s is words of affirmation and acts of service! I’m so bad at giving words of affirmation by nature but it’s detinitely something I’ve tried to do more since I know
    much he values it!
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  • Colleen
    Master September 2019
    Colleen ·
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    All but the first. For the both of us.
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  • Kristin
    Devoted August 2020
    Kristin ·
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    We are both a mixture of quality time and physical touch!
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  • Dedicated June 2020
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    I’m definitely a words of affirmation kind of gal with a mix of quality time. As a sufferer of depression/anxiety I need to always hear that he loves me or thinks I’m beautiful when I don’t feel I am. Even though I already know those things sometimes I need extra reassurance.
    FH on the other hand I think is more of acts of service and physical touch type of guy. He loves hugs and kisses lol
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  • Lc
    Super September 2018
    Lc ·
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    Mine is 100% words of affirmation. DH is quality time.
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  • Saraí
    April 2019
    Saraí ·
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    I think my love language is a mix between quality time together and physical touch. His is definitely physical touch.

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  • Tina
    March 2020
    Tina ·
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    My FH shows his love through acts of service, it took me a long time to accept this and to understand this was how he would show me he loves me. I'm all about giving gifts, affection and quality time.

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  • Mrs. Sarantos
    Master November 2019
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    I am definitely words and quality time, but I don’t usually get that from him. Time yes, words never. His language is gifts and I’ve tried to understand that he communicates that way.
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