What would look better for our memorial table

I don't think you need to feel obligated to put people you weren't close with or didn't know. Unless that is what is normal for your family. Think about your guestlist and who would be there with you if they could have been. It is your memorial table, so go ahead and put the people you want to honor there. I love your ideas, and I think it is so sweet that you will get to have your son with you on your special day. Sending lots of love 💗

I would include immediate family and on a plaque vs. pictures, mementos, etc? So any children, siblings, parents, grandparents and draw the line at aunts/uncles/cousins and further out.

I am so sorry about the loss of your son.

We’re only doing immediate family only. Don’t worry about what other people are thinking. Your wedding, your vision !

First, I am so unbelievably sorry about your son. My thoughts are with you! We had 9 and one being my dad. I originally thought about doing photos, but decided to forgo that. My heart hurt looking at photos and it started to feel to heavy for me emotionally (totally a personal opinion for myself that day.) My cousin had a table with all the photos and it was absolutely beautiful! I decided to just stick with something for my dad. Doing a cigar bar in his memory. My thoughts, you do whatever and however you want! It’s hard enough on the biggest day to not have them there. You should incorporate them in whatever way gives you and your fiancé the most comfort. Sending love you way!

So sorry about your son . We are doing a photo table with a sign that has the quote you said you'd have. I personally like the idea of photos, but I know for some it can be painful, so I think you should go with whatever will make you most comfortable. I've never seen a plaque, but I have seen the candle with a sign and the photo table with a sign, so either will be a really beautiful tribute.

So sorry for your loss. You don't need to feel obligated to include every single person who has passed away in the family or around the family. Just the people who you guys want. I'm doing a memorial table as well, we will have my grandparents on my moms side and my fiancé grandfather included on the table. My dad's father passed away before I was even born and my dad didn't have much of a relationship with the guy, my dad went to see him once when he was dying to say his good byes. But I don't in any way feel obligated to include this man I've never even met or even had any chance to develop any sort of feeling for.