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What are your relationship deal-breakers?

Rebecca, on December 7, 2018 at 10:05 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 37

What makes you say “no way” in your relationship? A messy bedroom? Too much PDA? What’s a deal-breaker in your relationship?


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Latest activity by Tara, on February 8, 2019 at 12:50 PM
  • Lakota
    Savvy May 2020
    Lakota ·
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    Liking country music is deal breaker for me Smiley laugh

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  • Across The Stars
    Devoted October 2019
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    I'm with you there! Lol
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  • Kodi
    Super April 2019
    Kodi ·
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    Being rude to their mom, no thank you!


    I can deal with little stuff, messy room etc. I'm all about manors!!

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  • Tamara
    VIP August 2019
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    Lack of partnering and communicating.

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  • Nikita
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    Manipulation, blame-game, and in general ordering instead of communicating. I need transparency in a relationship.

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  • Kenisha
    Champion June 2019
    Kenisha ·
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    Smoking 🚬 Ew 🤮 I’m not kissing 💋 an ashtray every day for the next 50 years.
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  • Jennifer
    Master September 2018
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    Being rude to anyone providing you a service or being rude in general. Smoking is def a deal breaker as well - GROSS.

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  • Future Mrs. Robinson1120
    Devoted November 2020
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    Love country music
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  • Jessica
    Devoted December 2018
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    Whining. I can't stand when grown adults whine about something. "I'm so sickkkkkk. Take care of me." Unless you are unable to walk, you are perfectly capable of going to the drug store and getting your own meds.

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  • Angerra
    VIP August 2019
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    Ineffective communication!
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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    I just read your comment to my boyfriend who is currently home sick today and WILL NOT stop saying "I'm soooooo sick" when he just has a stuffy nose. I can't handle it either!!

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  • Rebecca
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    Is that a deal-breaker in your relationship too?!

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  • M
    Super August 2018
    Marta ·
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    Smoking and doesn’t like dogs. Can’t stand the smell of cigarettes and I can’t be with some one who doesn’t love dogs and animals as much as I do.
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  • Alyssa
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    Smoking for sure and not being self sufficient. Wanting kids has also been a deal breaker for me. I've never wanted to have kids so I couldn't be with someone who did. No matter what would happen between us, one of us would end up unhappy.
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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
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    Oh yes doesn't like dogs is a big one for me too!! Good answer!

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  • P
    Devoted October 2018
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    It would be a deal breaker for me if our relationship, wasn't the priority in his life. I wouldn't be happy if my opinion about things that affect us both was put second to his parents. I also couldn't tolerate anyone intolerant of others.

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  • M
    Super November 2019
    Melissa ·
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    Cheating. Of any kind. Theres no way a relationship can come back from that to a healthy level. The fear of being cheated on again will always be there after that.
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  • Rebecca
    Master October 2025
    Rebecca ·
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    Totally agree! Trust is very important in a relationship. I personally think it's very hard to regain it once it's lost!

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  • Gloria
    Super March 2019
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    Definitely a dealbreaker for me would be smoking 🚬 and cheating.
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  • S
    Dedicated October 2018
    Susan ·
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    Smoking or being condescending!
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