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Lol! I mean, whose wedding is it???

View Quoted Comment Well I don’t think those are really friendors. They’re professionals that are your friends. You had contracts and paid them. I feel like the friendor term is someone who does _____ on the side and is offering their “services”

I’m glad it worked out for you!

View Quoted Comment It’s my wedding 🙋🏽‍♀️ & I will not invite kids if I don’t want to!

View Quoted Comment Hahaha I love this, I've thought the same thing, but it also ties into the know your crowd thing. In my circles its rude to not bring a gift, and I've been to tons of friends and families weddings and always gifted something. So of course I'm going to be a little salty if someone shows up with nothing. Especially if that person lives 10 minutes away and is drinking my free alcohol and eating my free food... I at least want a damn card.

Woahhhhh that's crazy! I mean if you got it like that then hey why not....but still that makes me cringe lol

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This!! Thank you, Jessica!!!

View Quoted Comment I completely agree Maggie. I love reading when people say you should be grateful they came - a gift isn't required. Uhhh what?

View Quoted Comment I second this.

View Quoted Comment Oh, by all means! I’m just saying I was going to go to Costco. She mentioned a vendor shamed her for that ONLY being her budget!

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Bahaha exactly, Maggie!!! Obviously people in general have different interpretations on wedding etiquette, but shouldn't we all have at least common decency??? Bring a card!!!!

View Quoted Comment Bring a card. Put money in it. Put it in the card box. It’s not that hard.

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and I’ve said it plenty

but see it often on here

View Quoted Comment Well I appreciate that it makes me feel better lol

View Quoted Comment You should have felt fine the whole time. You’re a success story!

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I've been putting this out there whenever I can because so many people think that etiquette means that this a rule and you can't break it, but it's not that at all. It just like saying, "I really don't like peas, so you shouldn't like peas either." That's silly.

View Quoted Comment I feel you on this one.

May I just say this post is hilarious to me lol Some things I had NEVER heard before coming here! WeddingWire is it's own island sometimes

Yep I've seen all of the above. Its actually one reason why I took a break from wedding wire I felt people were so rude about it if your asking for advice and 10 people in a row say the say thing you dont need a 100 more making you feel bad for asking a question.

Wow. This is a really good post. I’m in the beginning stage of planning for my wedding. I’m learning a lot from reading some of these discussions. Someone had told me about the honeyfund.. I haven’t had a chance to look into it, but thought maybe we should do this. But after reading about it on these discussions, I think I need to rethink about it.

View Quoted Comment I completely agree. Thanks Jessica for adding that to the list!