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Natalie
Beginner October 2019

Wedding week 10/26

Natalie, on October 21, 2019 at 10:49 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 6

So my wedding is this week and I feel like I should be more excited but I'm not...so much has happened lately with drama and I don't know how to feel about it. My husband is getting more excited finally but I'm feeling kinda stuck and uninterested. Any advice on how to get out of this slump?

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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    Maybe do a date night this week. Remind yourself of all the reasons you love this man and why he loves you. Your probably just stressed from all the planning.
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  • Natalie
    Beginner October 2019
    Natalie ·
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    It definitely is due to the wedding planning! It's been insane lately but I love him more than anything, I guess it's just the idea of the wedding itself has me overwhelmed to the point I feel emotionless...I know the day off I'm going to be crying and smiling like nobody's business lol

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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·
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    Sometimes we all just need a good planning-break! Treat yourself to a nice spa day or manicure, binge watch Netflix, bake, whatever you love to do!

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  • Kimberly
    Expert October 2019
    Kimberly ·
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    I felt the same way. We had some family issues which was bumming me out but ultimately they were resolved and everybody attended the wedding. I was feeling kind of blah about it the night before. I think a lot of that has to do with being stressed throughout the whole process. Once you realize there's nothing more that you can do and it's out of your hands I think you get a little more excited. the best feeling is the day after the wedding, when you wake up and you have no wedding planning stress left.
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    Massage... or a bubble bath. Just relax and don’t think about it.
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  • Devoted March 2021
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    I’m sorry you’re feeling this way but it’s so important for you to be in a good state of mind. Focus your energy on your soon to be husband and no matter what is going on, the two of you are getting married! Remember how excited you were when you first started planning? Remember the feelings you felt when he proposed? Channel that happiness and forget the drama! This is about the two of you, and it’s going to be amazing!
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