Wedding venue ideas for a small romantic but elegant wedding

So many variables here.. but we've got a 40 head count, at 18k, all inclusive, weekday, night wedding and found a beautiful venue to do so because we're also not too social and want elegant. I looked at backyard wedding options (depending how much work or money you want to put in) at an AirBnB (hard to find that allow) and probably 100 venues (landing on 3, so its out there but gotta dig). Hope this helps!

Our wedding will be on the smaller side too. We looked at a lot of restaurants in the beginning because the traditional wedding venues mostly seemed too large in my opinion but the option was there to reserve one ballroom and section it off for the ceremony and reception. I also looked at AirBnB’s but there was a lot of restrictions and extra fees due to potential liability which I can understand. A bed and breakfast might be an option. I considered the backyard option too but I’m not sure I want that added stress or liability either. Our local park’s department has several options including indoor spaces that accommodate smaller groups so you could try searching your local community.