Wedding Superstition/Tradition: The Night Before The Wedding

Me and my Fiancé are spending the night away from each other.

View Quoted Comment That sounds like it will be a fun night for both of you! Always good to spend some extra time with your closest friends.

View Quoted Comment Awesome that you are following the tradition! What other traditions are you incorporating into your wedding?

View Quoted Comment Love it!! That will make for one special moment at the altar for you both.

We will be staying away from each other the night before. We are both Christians and have been celibate and will remain so until after the ceremony.

We have decided to do the night in separate places on the eve of the wedding. So I booked our Honeymoon suite for two nights (so I don't have to change rooms either).

View Quoted Comment Yes yes. Im excited.

We chose to be separate

View Quoted Comment Ooh, that sounds interesting! What kind of a surprise do you have planned?

View Quoted Comment That will be a beautiful "wow" moment for you both at the altar for sure! My fiance and I are doing a first look. I initially was against it, but after talking to our photographer, we ended up deciding that we want to do a first look! We want to attend cocktail hour to enjoy the appetizers we picked out and also to spend more time with everyone, so we will be taking almost all of our photos before the ceremony.

View Quoted Comment I totally understand wanting to spend every moment together, especially when you already spend a lot of time apart during the week!

View Quoted Comment Very cool that you are leaving that conversation open for discussion! Are you doing a first look on your wedding day?

View Quoted Comment Awesome that you're following the tradition! What other traditions are you planning to incorporate into your wedding?

Thank you for asking this question. I assumed my daughter & fiancé would want to spend it separately. Fortunately, I had read thru a lot of these comments. The other day she told me they wanted to spend the night together before their wedding & I was able to say ok, that makes sense! They have always done things their way & it works well for them…who am I to intrude on what they want for themselves? They are adults & can & do make their own decisions! I want them to be happy & honestly I think they will be more grounded if they spend the evening before together! They are also doing a first look! Again, thanks for posting the question!

We are staying away from each other after the rehearsal and dinner afterwards.

View Quoted Comment Very cool that you're following the tradition! What other traditions are you incorporating into your wedding?

Away from each other. We don't live together

View Quoted Comment That's a smart idea to have one of you stay in the honeymoon suite the night before the wedding so you don't have to change rooms the next day!

View Quoted Comment Very cool that you're following the tradition! Are you doing a first look before the ceremony? Or will the first time you see each other on the wedding day be at the altar?

View Quoted Comment The 1st time will be at the wedding He’s wearing tails so I can’t wait to see him looking like a noble steed🥰😂