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Brandi
Devoted September 2021

Wedding stress

Brandi, on August 19, 2019 at 2:40 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 1 8
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OMG!!! I don't know where to start.
This weekend has been horrible. First, my remaining Grandma passed away age 90.
Second, my Dad tells me to start planning his funeral because he is tired of fighting cancers( totally agree with him, no arguments here).
And that he doesn't know if he can travel for my wedding due to dyalis, again totally understandable. ( I'm not heartless).
3rd, my fiance totally upsets me today by quiting his job because he says his boss is a complete jack you know what. OKAY, BILLS STILL HAVE TO BE PAID. 4 and lastly, my daughter starts her SENIOR YEAR of High school tomorrow and she is absolutely freaking out and just being completely disgruntled and rude all day.
Am I wrong for feeling like the entire world is crashing down on me this weekend??? Help!!!

P.s. thanks for reading my rant

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Latest activity by Pirate & 60s Bride, on August 20, 2019 at 8:27 PM
  • D
    Super July 2020
    D ·
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    Wow that is a lot. I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm really sorry you are going through all of this. Keep faith things will get better for your FH and daughter. Cherish your time with your father. Grieve grandma's passing at your own pace. We gain strength and wisdom with each challenge although it feels shtty at the time. I hope everything turns around for the better. You need good news back in your life.
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
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    I'm sorry for your loss. It's a lot going on for you. Take a break for yourself for a moment to compose your thoughts and breathe. You'll make it through, hang on !
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
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    Arggggg. You’re dealing with so much. I think I’d cry then soak in a bubble bath with a glass of wine and tell everyone to cook their own dinner and make a plate for me.

    Hugs!
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  • Brandi
    Devoted September 2021
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    OMG you know how amazing that sounds. Goodness, this house would fall apart if I took time for myself.
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  • Brandi
    Devoted September 2021
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    Thanks Melle. Trying hard to breathe and relax today. Sometimes the stress is enough in its own. Your very kind. Thank you
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  • Brandi
    Devoted September 2021
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    Thank you D for your kind words and wisdom of faith. If I wasn't a Christian, things would be much harder. Hope your planning is going as you like.
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  • Kiara
    VIP August 2021
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    Aww wow no your not wrong for how you been feeling. Your going thru a lot.. Hug hug
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
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    Sometimes a woman needs to say "F it!" Especially a bride-to-be. Take care of yourself so you can continue taking care of others.

    Smiley love

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