Wedding postponed

You are so much better than me, first time was a mistake. Second you are two weeks away let the joke be on him.. Call everyone and Get your buns out of there. You dont have to settle are wait for when he is ready, you have feelings and concerned just like he does. Did you state your feelings in this matter? Seems he does not car about yours just his

Thanks so much for the advice I need to start standing in what I believe in

Even know I'm just want to cry my eyes out. Goodnight

I'm so sorry, Candace! You are being a great role model for your kids in demanding a great relationship and respect for yourself.

I'm so sorry. One time is one thing - people get scared, they get cold feet, whatever you want to call it. I've seen couples come back from that. But twice? As much as it hurts, I think you made the right choice.

You deserve better and I'm sorry you're going through this

I'm sorry you are going through this, Candace. You deserve to be with someone who cherishes you and is as equally committed to the relationship as you are. If he is not willing to do that, there are plenty of other men in the world. I am sorry for your children that they are experiencing this as well.

Do you have anyone in your life who would be able to take over the phone calls to guests for you? A friend, family member? This way you don't have to go through the emotions of talking to every single guest about this.

I think you need to reconsider buying a house together. He can not commit to you as he has now backed out twice. Life is stressful all the time. He's showing you when it gets tough he is going to RUN. You have a lot of thinking to do. Good Luck!

Pre marital counseling. My FH wanted to buy a house first but new that having a wedding was important to me. We are going to do both. He should have told you a year ago he wanted to postpone not this close to the wedding. This is a major red flag. I wish you the best of luck!

Counseling sounds like a great...I personally wouldn't want to commit forever to someone who can't fully commit to me. Guys don't mince words. He's telling you his feelings. Get to the bottom of things. A wedding is just one day but marriage is forever. Make sure you guys are on the same page where it counts.

I think you did the right thing. Honestly even before I saw your update I was about to post that if similar things had happened with my husband I likely would have walked away, at least for a while. At a certain point you're either in or you're not. I can't even imagine buying a house with someone or being engaged to someone (let alone married) if they weren't 100% in it. My husband and I bought a house together before we were officially engaged but it didn't worry me because I knew we were in it forever no matter what. You deserve to feel safe and secure in your relationship and know you have a partner who has your back. Better to wait longer for it than to settle! Either see if this can be fixed if you think it can or start fresh and find someone who you can have a better life with.

I'm sorry you are going through this! It sounds like you made the right decision for yourself and your children. That speaks volumes for your character.

I'm sorry you're dealing with this.

More red flags than a communist rally in China.

This man is no good......sorry, but I had to say it. Take care of yourself and your kids and live a great life without him.......what does he think you and they kids are, a game? He's selfish and cold, IMO!

I'm sorry about the outcome but I feel it was the right thing for you to do. He was never going to commit and I honestly believe he's known for quite some time that he wouldn't be able to do so. For him to wait two weeks before the wedding to finally confess to it is a bitch move on his part and you and your kids deserve someone who is willing and ready to commit.