Wedding planning has me paranoid ;-)

Well that's good!

LOL good!! I'm glad she wants you there - I don't have any "obligation" invites planned, only inviting those closest to us - nobody because we feel like we have to

View Quoted Comment Neither do we, thankfully! We are giving a lot of plus ones but it’s not a point of contention for us, so I don’t view it as an obligation invite.
I DID have to think hard about my brother’s kids. He has six kids, all adults and married, and all if them have at least two (and more) kids themselves. I talked to him about and he told me HE doesn’t invite the whole crew anywhere. Plus I have not seen any of them since they were young.

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How many people are you inviting?

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Between 100-150. I suspect that there will be about 100 that accept, though we will plan for all. We have lots of people that live overseas and around the country who may not want to travel. I'd love for them to be there but totally understand if they can't.

And to be honest, we lucked out with a venue that is incredibly cost effective, so we can be generous with the guest list!

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Sounds good!! I'll be inviting close to 80 maybe, I only expect like 65-70 to come