We are going non-tradition and not have a 'wedding party' in the traditional sense. We will have no bridesmaids or groomsmen, but with will have close family walk before us. We are also not having a little girl as our flower girl, we are having our three grandmothers be the flower girls. Our colors are grey, but should we have people match suites and dresses or just keep to the colors? Should our flower grandmas match or be similar in dress? HELP!