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Kaitlyn
Expert August 2017

Wedding nightmares have started =[

Kaitlyn, on June 4, 2017 at 8:29 AM Posted in Planning 0 20

And they hit all at once.

Photographer didn't show up (he was at Disney) because he was sure the wedding was the next day and I couldn't find my contract

The reception was in a basement with about 15 people (were inviting around 200)

I did my own hair and makeup (not knocking anyone who is but that's not the plan).

I was so heartbroken that I sat down on the ground bawling in the middle of the reception surrounded by tulle telling everyone this wasn't the wedding I planned.


20 Comments

Latest activity by Mrs. Koalajetski, on June 4, 2017 at 3:49 PM
  • futurelagrange
    Dedicated October 2017
    futurelagrange ·
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    Mine have started as well. Smiley sad

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  • Modern Bride
    Savvy July 2017
    Modern Bride ·
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    Mine have started as well. My latest one was that the make up artist didn't show up! Yikes!

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  • Amber
    VIP July 2017
    Amber ·
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    My most recent one was that I saw my bouquet five minutes before I walked down the aisle... It was 3 wilted flowers taped on a straw with streamers hanging from it, and my florist didn't see what was wrong >_<

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  • MrsRies&Love
    VIP May 2018
    MrsRies&Love ·
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    Oh no! Mine have already started and I'm still 11 months away.

    The other night I was dreaming that I was about to walk down the aisle, but H&MU never showed up and I looked a mess. As I was walking, the dream broke out into an Alien vs. Predator scene, and they captured all of us as hostages. I've never even seen AvP? What is life..?

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  • Kaitlyn
    Expert August 2017
    Kaitlyn ·
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    I was so excited when I went to bed because we finished our invites last night to be mailed Monday!

    I guess I'm lucky mine 68 days out. I don't think I could handle more than 2 months of this...

    @amber o. Oh no! Dream photographer was super lackadaisical about missing the wedding because of the contract. Like he didn't realize we can never redo these pictures. And FH was cool with all of it because at least we were still married regardless. I was fuming.

    @mrsries Omg that's great. We're you fighting them still in your dress?

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  • Mrs. G
    Super July 2017
    Mrs. G ·
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    Ive been having them recently as well! My latest was he called off the wedding right after everything was paid and guests were seated..

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  • T Marie
    Super October 2017
    T Marie ·
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    The last one I had, the photographer showed up with a disposable camera. Smh. Ha ha.

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  • kelly
    Super June 2017
    kelly ·
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    19 days to go and now two nights in a row I've had them. I hope they stop! I've had them sporadically over the past two and a half years but they're getting worse now. I can barely remember what they were... I just remember waking up all anxious and having to calm myself down ahaha

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  • Steagles
    Devoted August 2017
    Steagles ·
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    I thought you all were nuts when you talked about getting these but....mine have started. I was a teacher in my former job so in mine my guests wouldn't be quiet or sit still during the ceremony so I had to keep shushing them. I also forgot to write my vows so I was trying to ad lib them on top of everyone not being quiet. Yikes!

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  • Kaitlyn
    Expert August 2017
    Kaitlyn ·
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    @steagles I thought the same thing! "That will never happen to me. I'm a chill bride"...until I woke up panicking this morning thinking it was the day after that shit show. I'm imagining guests running around with trucks and glue sticks in your dream and it's a great mental image.

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  • Claudia
    Expert November 2017
    Claudia ·
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    Oh no! Scary but hilarious. Is this what I have to look forward to??? :0

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  • Future Mrs. L
    VIP June 2017
    Future Mrs. L ·
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    I have had wedding nightmares EVERY SINGLE NIGHT FOR OVER A WEEK! It is driving me crazy!!

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  • Rochelle
    Expert June 2017
    Rochelle ·
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    Mine too!

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  • Faluf
    Devoted November 2017
    Faluf ·
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    I had my first not too long ago. We had no Day Of timeline so, as you can imagine, everything was a mess. Also, the wedding was in a Walgreens...

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  • OnTheWayToMrsA
    Super August 2017
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    Omg mine too! I had one two nights ago: We showed up late, the ceremony started without us (lol, the logic of a dream), and they were already mid-reception when we got there. People were bored to tears and I noticed our photobooth was missing. I spent the rest of the dream panicked over our missing photobooth because "THAT'S WHAT WILL MAKE THIS PARTY FUN AGAIN!!!" Lmao.

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  • C
    Devoted April 2018
    Christina ·
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    I'm a dumb blonde at times. (Go ahead point and laugh) I thought this was for real! Lol.

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  • Ricotta1
    Devoted May 2017
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    Aren't the wedding nightmares fun?? My favorite one was the DJ's equipment broke down & all he had was an accordion.

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  • milinovemberbride
    VIP November 2017
    milinovemberbride ·
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    Oh my goodness, I was so confused!! I thought these things happened in real life to you!

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  • S
    Expert December 2017
    Sandra ·
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    I had one too . My ex boyfriend from high school was officiating. We had to share the spotlight with another couple . The ceremony was at a swamp and we had to walk a very narrow bridge to the alter with alligator on both sides .

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  • Mrs. Koalajetski
    Super May 2017
    Mrs. Koalajetski ·
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    The last one I had before getting married was my bridesmaid and I getting into a fight cause she was pissed she couldn't walk down the aisle by herself. Don't worry ladies these will stop soon!!

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