And they hit all at once.
Photographer didn't show up (he was at Disney) because he was sure the wedding was the next day and I couldn't find my contract
The reception was in a basement with about 15 people (were inviting around 200)
I did my own hair and makeup (not knocking anyone who is but that's not the plan).
I was so heartbroken that I sat down on the ground bawling in the middle of the reception surrounded by tulle telling everyone this wasn't the wedding I planned.