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Kalynn
Savvy March 2020

Wedding Nerves

Kalynn, on October 21, 2019 at 8:51 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 6
Anyone getting nervous or feeling scared as the days get closer? It's 151 days for me and I'm really freaking out, we've been together long enough but I'm just worried since it's marriage. I'm concerned I won't lose enough weight before the wedding or if everything gets taken care of.


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Latest activity by Melle, on October 21, 2019 at 1:46 PM
  • Amber
    Master February 2020
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    To me, I think it's perfectly normal to be anxious/nervous with marriage. I don't think it means you have doubts necessarily, it just means you understand that you're taking a very big step in life and you take it very seriously (which everyone should!).

    Please don't stress yourself about losing weight for the wedding, I've been doing the same thing unfortunately. You're beautiful the way you are, and your FH obviously thinks so too! Focus more on living a healthy lifestyle (eating right, exercising) than about the number on the scale. Good luck!! Smiley heart

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  • Kalynn
    Savvy March 2020
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    Thank Amber! That was kind of you. I just get so worried I guess lol. A healthier lifestyle would probably help a lot and at least walking everyday some.

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  • Brooke
    Expert November 2019
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    I am currently 19 days away and have been freaking out since we hit 100 days!

    Luckily I do feel I have most everything done, just a couple groomsmen gifts to get and the menu cards to finish (:

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  • Kalynn
    Savvy March 2020
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    Brooke, That's awesome! I'm sure I'll freak out more when it's 100 or less days lol. ordering the invitations today!

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  • Hannah
    Devoted December 2019
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    I think everyone on this site planning a wedding is probably a total bundle of nerves at some point during this process! Lol.

    I'm currently 50something days out, and I am nothing but a huge ball of stress. It started hitting me when I hit about 90 days out and it has been non stop since then.

    My only advice is that if you want the weight off, make it happen. It's hard, but I've been working on mine too and it really does make you feel a lot better. Especially if you're eating good, nutritious things. I didn't realize how much of a difference that would make. The other thing I would say is, pace yourself. I don't know how far off you are, but make sure you make time to just chill and enjoy other things in life and don't let this wedding consume your every thought and every ounce of free time. It gets so overwhelming sometimes and taking a weekend to just not do anything really helps sometimes.

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    It's normal to feel more nervous as the days go by and gets closer to your date
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