Where should I start!! I got invited to a wedding and the list of don'ts are long. I plan to get some take aways from this wedding and I hope you all do too. First of all it was pretty tacky but I'll hold back because the things that make it so are my opinion and preferences to certain things. So here we go. The bridal party showed up an hour and 15 minutes late to the church. The ceremony ended at the start time of the reception (full mass). The venue was 40 minutes away. So everyone showed up about an hour late to the venue. They didn't start serving passed hors d'oeuvres until 45 minutes after that. The appetizers were very skimp like ppl were asking the waiters for additional pieces and they said they couldn't. There was hardly any dancing because the Dj was bad and the bride and groom had multiple performances done by ppl they knew which took up dancing time. The bar was open bar but they only had 3 types of vodka 1 tequila and rum. Continued in comments