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Madison
Savvy May 2021

Wedding Gift Etiquette

Madison, on March 26, 2021 at 2:27 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 11
Someone RSVP’d and said they were not coming to our wedding which is still almost two months away, however they bought us a gift from our registry and it got delivered today. Do we open it now or wait till after our wedding to open it? Also, do we thank them now or after?

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Latest activity by Lady, on March 29, 2021 at 10:06 AM
  • SLY
    Master January 2022
    SLY ·
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    Either is fine! If it were me, I'd go ahead and open it then send a thank you card right after. My mom got us something off of our registry as a Christmas/congrats gift. We went ahead and opened it and facetimed her during it! She was super happy we got it safely and that we were excited to use it! (instant pot)

    Whenever you choose to open, be sure to send a thank you card right after. That way they know you've received your gift!

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  • Hanna
    VIP June 2019
    Hanna ·
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    I'd open it now and send a thank you note promptly.

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  • Michelle
    Champion December 2022
    Michelle ·
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    Open it and a thank you card now. Do not use the gift until after the wedding.

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    You should open it and send a thank you card ASAP so they know you received it. If they wanted you to have it after the wedding, that’s when they would send it. This goes for anyone who has sent a gift, not just those that RSVP’d no.
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  • Stacey
    Super May 2021
    Stacey ·
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    Open now, send thank you now. Otherwise, they will wonder if you ever received it. Smiley smile

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  • Lisa
    Legend July 2022
    Lisa ·
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    I would open it now and immediately send a thank you note! That way, the sender knows you received it, and it's one less thank you note that you have to write later (since you'll likely be writing a lot of them after the wedding!).
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  • Jennifer
    VIP August 2021
    Jennifer ·
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    Agree with the others, open it now so you can enjoy it and thank them for their thoughtful gift!

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Open it now and send a thank you
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  • Samantha
    VIP October 2022
    Samantha ·
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    Totally open it now for a few reasons: 1. you can be specific in your thank you note. 2. You can send that thank you note immediately. 3. You can make sure it’s not broken or has any other issues. Opening too long after the ship date may leave you stuck.
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  • Cristy
    Master May 2021
    Cristy ·
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    I would open it now, and send a thank you note right away.

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  • L
    Lady ·
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    Definitely open it now and send a thank you card right away.

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