I am trying so hard not to stress out about my wedding dress. So I ordered my dress in June. I fell in love with it. The consultant told me the vendor takes forever and that it will come in the soonest November 24th and the latest December 1st. I get married December 22nd and the dress was not custom made so needs alterations. The consultant told me a week for alternations is all I needed. Today I spoke with a seamstress and she said my alternations will need 3 weeks judging from pictures of me in a sample dress. I am having a destination wedding and now am freaking out. Everyone says I need to stay calm and not worry about the dress, but it's all I can think about. My family stays everything will work but I feel like I need a back up dress. My consultant is constantly calling the vendor to rush the order with no response. I keep blaming myself for being dumb and choosing this dress. Does anyone have advice on how to deal with stress and not freak out? Thanks.