I'm pretty sure I'm leaning towards wearing a satin and beaded sash with my dress. For those of you who wore one did you tie it in the back or sew it to your dress? If you tied it did it stay tight? I like the sash when it's tight and really accentuates the waistline. But I don't want to ruin the dress with sewing it on. Maybe add hooks or clear snaps? Pics would be great too!