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Arkilia
Super November 2021

Wedding Dress Dilemma

Arkilia, on September 18, 2019 at 10:29 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 13
Sorry for the long post

Here my situation my mom offered to pay for dress because she bought my sister's. I know what I want is out of her budget so I decided to just pay for it myself (totally ok with it). The champagne dress above is between $1300-$1500, I have tried this dress on in person and absolutely loved the way I looked in it and how nice the color complements my skin color (no pic in it the bridal salon would not allow it). The white dress I can purchase at Cocomelody for a fraction of the price. I can have it altered to allow for the off the shoulder sleeves and I can order it in champagne that would cost me roughly $590. My only fear is the dress will not be right and I've wasted $600 then I have to go out and buy another dress, they also don't have a swatch of what their dark champagne will look like so I am basing the color solely off of my phone and computer screen... the first dress would only need the standard alterations.
My question is what would you ladies do in this situation? Thank you in advance

Wedding Dress Dilemma 1

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Latest activity by Arkilia, on September 19, 2019 at 2:28 PM
  • Amber
    Master February 2020
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    I would go with the second dress. Your mom is willing to pay for your dress within a certain price range, so I would go that route. I think it would look almost identical to the first one from the alterations you described!

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  • Rhianna
    Devoted April 2020
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    They look very similar so I think you could order the second and be happy. Is there anywhere you could try this gown on?

    If you absolutely love the first one and this is your dream dress, could your mom pay the amount she budgeted and you pay the remaining?

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  • Jennifer
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    I would go for the dress I truly wanted.
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  • Arkilia
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    No the dress is not carried in their stores so I would be ordering it online.
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  • Cristy
    Master May 2021
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    Since it's all online, do you know if they have a decent return policy? If you're assured you could return it if it's not what you want, then I say go for it!! If not, then my next question is, can you feel good about a white dress? Or did you have your heart set on this champagne color? You should always be happy with the dress you buy, but I have trouble spending that kind of money on a dress I'll wear once, so the price of your dream dress would make the decision for me.

    If it helps, I've heard really good things about cocomelody and their dresses. You have plenty of time. It's just a matter of loving it or not. Good luck!

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  • Kimber
    Devoted June 2020
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    Does the company you are getting the second dress from have swatches? This could help put your mind at ease about the color.

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  • Arkilia
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    So because I'm changing the color and adding sleeves it is considered custom, so I would be unable to return it.
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  • Arkilia
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    They have swatches just not of the cor and fabric I need.
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  • kittycow
    Expert December 2001
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    I'd get the first dress since you absolutely love the way you look in it and how nicely it compliments your skin tone. (Could your mother's contribution be for the alterations instead?) Isn't that what we're all looking for?

    Why stress yourself out by redesigning a similar dress with an iffy color? (You have plenty of other things that need your attention.)

    Just my 2¢ Smiley smile
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  • Monique
    Devoted August 2020
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    If they have a decent return policy you could always order the dress in white to see the quality and return it and order it in champagne once you know it's good. And maybe ask the seller if they have a color swatch you could order to see what the color looks like!
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  • Jordan
    Expert September 2019
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    I would go with the dress that you already love without alterations.

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  • Arkilia
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    Thank you so much after much thought I am going with the first one.... 😀
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  • Arkilia
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    Yeah, I have decided to. Thank you
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