Wedding dress debate

Hi there! I am Having a tough time with deciding on my wedding gown. I really want my bridesmaids to be in beaded or sequined dresses. I am looking
For my gown, And I don't know which direction to go in to make myself stand out from my girls. My maid of honor says I should go plain and classic to contrasthe detailing of their dresses. I've also heard the opposite. Can anyone offer any insight as to Which way would be more visually appealing and also have me stand out?