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Kim
Devoted November 2011

wedding dress at courthouse wedding?

Kim, on September 24, 2011 at 1:36 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 17

I really want to feel like a bride and have a wedding but I really can't make myself spend the money on a wedding when we wanna buy a house sometime in the next year. I just found out that the place I was gonna have it (outside by a river) is closed on the day I want so its gonna be at the courthouse. I have a dress with a long train and im thinking I might feel strange walking around in it. I might also see about finding something simple and white. I just can't make up my mind.

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Latest activity by Deleted, on September 28, 2011 at 7:38 PM
  • 2d Bride
    Champion October 2009
    2d Bride ·
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    You can wear whatever you want to a courthouse wedding. My understanding is that people show up in everything from jeans and flip flops to wedding dresses and veils.

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  • Jamie
    VIP August 2011
    Jamie ·
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    I think it'd be perfectly fine to use the dress you have. It's still your wedding. =)


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  • Hayley C™
    Master March 2008
    Hayley C™ ·
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    Wear it, and bring a photographer if your courthouse has a pretty staircase and such.




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  • Kim
    Devoted November 2011
    Kim ·
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    I dont know if they would let us take pictures in there but that's a good idea I will be looking into that

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  • J
    Master November 2011
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    Even on the courthouse steps - go for it! You're getting married!

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  • Ms. 2 Mrs.
    Super October 2012
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    I was going to do a courthouse deal because I too want to put a good down payment on my home instead of a wedding but luckily I found a B&B that does small weddings and the price is fantastic but I would say to wear that dress anyway!!! It's your special day Smiley winking

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  • Dena&JD
    Master April 2012
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    I say go for it!!!

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  • Kim
    Devoted November 2011
    Kim ·
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    I saw another girls dress on another post that I LOVE!!! And I think it would work out good. I made a post asking her to respond but I guess she is not on yet =(. If its not made for plus size I will keep mine

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  • Peony
    Expert October 2015
    Peony ·
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    The way I see it, it's your special day so you should feel special. Don't settle for a simple white dress if that's not what you want.

    If you're looking for ideas of how to have a nice courthouse wedding, you might like a blog called Small Wedding Style - http://smallweddingstyle.com/

    There's a lot of style inspiration for elopements, including City Hall. SF has a really nice courthouse though, so photographs are naturally prettier. However, I've seen images of people go to the courthouse and then do their portraits at another location.

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  • adriana
    Beginner August 2011
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    I say do it ! We did. When u get there u won't even care what people think. It's your day.

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  • Private User
    VIP May 2021
    Private User ·
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    It your day and wear your dress

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  • Mrs. M fka Sami B
    Master June 2012
    Mrs. M fka Sami B ·
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    Wear the dress, take a stroll with FH after the ceremony, enjoy your day!

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  • Mouche
    Master October 2012
    Mouche ·
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    Yea, wear the dress

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  • A
    Dedicated January 2012
    Amber ·
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    It's your day and you should be able to feel special no matter where you decide to say "I DO!" Smiley smile

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  • Michele
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    Are you planning on getting married 11/11/2011 at the courthouse? I would do some double checking, if I were you. November 11 is Vetran's Day, and in some states courts are closed that day. You might want to check and be certain the courthouse will be open and performing weddings on the day you've selected.

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  • Julean
    VIP May 2011
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    Kim: Which dress were you looking for? Or which girl did you see who has it? If she hasn;t responded maybe we can help you find it Smiley smile

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  • D
    Master March 2013
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    FH and I are getting married at the courthouse on Monday (yay!) BUT, we are only doing it for certain financial and other reasons, and we're not telling anyone we're getting married. Then, we're going to have our ceremony with our family/friends and the reception in about a year or so.

    So, I won't be wearing my dress because I want to save it for my BIG big day, but I will be wearing a white dress. Our courthouse is a crappy little DMV looking building and when we applied for the license they said for the ceremony they just take you in this back room and it "only takes a minute". So I wasn't too excited about the idea of wearing a wedding dress in there.

    But, if this is going to be your one and only big day, I say definitely wear it. Im' sure it happens there all the time.

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