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Ycela
Savvy June 2022

Wedding Dress Anxiety | Fun or Drag?!

Ycela, on December 29, 2021 at 2:22 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 26
So, I’m having Dress Anxiety!!!!! Anyone else??!


((Our wedding is in June and I’m extremely behind on this leg of the race. I paused everything when my big mama (grandmother) passed away in October. I’m also an event planner so I know my timeline now is crunch season officially. But with all that, I don’t want to even go gown shopping. I can’t wrap my mind around her not being there with us, and putting my mommy postpartum gut in a gown! ))
Any other mama’s feeling the race is on when it comes to this part??

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Latest activity by Ycela, on February 7, 2022 at 9:29 PM
  • Jasmine S.
    VIP May 2022
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    By anxiety, do you mean you haven't bought your dress yet, or that you got one and now have second thoughts?


    If you don't have a dress yet... get one ASAP. Go shopping NOW. My dress took over 5 months to come in. Things are very slow because of COVID.
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  • Ycela
    Savvy June 2022
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    I don’t have one! 😳😫
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  • Lisa
    Legend July 2022
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    My wedding is July 2022, and I actually just bought a dress a couple weeks ago! So it's not impossible to get a dress in this time frame. Jasmine E. is correct that if you're ordering a dress, you would want to start looking ASAP. However, you do have other options! There are places where the dresses take a shorter time to come in (in some cases, the designer has a bunch of standard sizes in stock and those take much less time to arrive, since they're already made), or the dress can be rush ordered, and there are other places where you can buy the dress off the rack or even buy a sample dress from the shop. Also check out secondhand shops or online - often times, pre-owned dresses are still new with tags and unaltered, though much cheaper than a new dress.
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  • Jasmine S.
    VIP May 2022
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    Go shopping ASAP or you may not get the style of dress you want in your size. You may have to pay rush fees at this point
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  • Ycela
    Savvy June 2022
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    Update*** I have an appointment tomorrow with a bridal boutique that sells off the rack and made to order. My mother and my children will be accompanying me to the appointment. Thanks for lighting a fire under me to just do it!
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  • Bird
    Super June 2021
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    Davids bridal has many dresses in stock!
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  • Ycela
    Savvy June 2022
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    Thank you! I made an apt there as well for the 22nd with my bridesmaids. I have an apt booked tomorrow at a boutique so we will see.
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  • Rosie
    Master February 2022
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    I’m relieved to hear you booked an appointment and I hope you find something you love!
    We’d love to see it if you’d like to come back and share pics!
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  • Ycela
    Savvy June 2022
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    No luck yesterday, but I was very optimistic. I have another appointment in there Los Angeles boutique end of next month but also again next Friday. I even scheduled one at good ol David’s Bridal on the 22nd with my bridesmaids. It’ll happen this coming month and I will for sure share. ♥️🥂💪🏽
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  • Ycela
    Savvy June 2022
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    Here’s the update! I said yes to a dress today with my mother and daughters. Have a visionary mind, it’s not zipped in the back but it was a tear jerker for me and I know in alterations I’ll be snatchhhhedddd! 🍾♥️💪🏽Wedding Dress Anxiety | Fun or Drag?! 1

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  • Rosie
    Master February 2022
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    Awww, lovely! I love the embellishment! I'm glad you got to have your moment!

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  • Ycela
    Savvy June 2022
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    Thank you, Rosie! I really didn’t think I would have it, but I did. ♥️
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  • Tina
    Dedicated May 2022
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    Beautiful!!!! You look absolutely stunning!!!

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  • Ycela
    Savvy June 2022
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    Thank you so much, Tina!
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  • PermaGrin
    Devoted June 2022
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    Love your dress! Congrats - you look lovely! Very nice details Smiley smile

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  • Ycela
    Savvy June 2022
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    Thank you ♥️ I feel in love with the details and the skirt.
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  • Lynne
    Dedicated August 2022
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    Yep, my wedding is exactly 6 months from tomorrow and I don't have my dress yet. That should change as of tomorrow though, hopefully.
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  • Ycela
    Savvy June 2022
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    Manifest it 💪🏽♥️ Tomorrow you will also find your I do dress!
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  • Keyra
    Dedicated August 2022
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    Our dress looks alike. Even though this isn't me in my dress. This is the exact dress I order. I had the waterworks as well. I'm so happy you found your dress. You got this and your big mama will be with you in spirit and most definitely in your heart on your big day.

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  • Ycela
    Savvy June 2022
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    @keyra I swear I tried your dress on! Lol Congrats on finding yours as well! I’m adding additional crystals on both the neckline and hem on the skirt with sleeves that have the same crystal and beading as the bodice. 😭😭😭 I know I’m going to ugly cry and be overwhelmed with emotion. Thank you for your kind words about my big mama🥲 I’m having a piece of her wedding dress stitched into the inside of my bodice. 💪🏽♥️
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