I am 34 days out from my wedding and all the drama has begun. I asked my best friend to be my maid of honor over a year ago. Last summer she got married. I was in her wedding party and was very involved in her wedding planning and events leading up to her day. As her wedding past and the excitement settled down, I started reaching out to her to start planning my wedding. Every idea she would agree with but never really put any input into. I asked her to come pick out my dress with me, she couldn’t. We went as a group to pick out the bridal parties dresses, she had to leave early. I asked her to come pick up my wedding dress with me, she couldn’t. I planned and paid for almost all of my bridal shower. Now we are two weeks away from my bachelorette party and she just called me and said she can’t make it. This whole time I thought the whole thing was already planned (we’re going away for a weekend) I tried to mention all these things bothering me to her and she got defensive and said I didn’t realize I wasn’t a sufficient MOH. I’m tempted to tell her she doesn’t need to be in the wedding anymore but I’m not sure what to do.
Am I being bridezilla or is it fair that I’m this upset?
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