Wedding day ruined.

You mean the people closest to you couldn’t put themselves and their emotions aside for one day?! The two mothers thought it was okay to act like babies?? I don’t care who said what to who first or who started what, this is one of the most selfish things anyone can do. The cops were called??!! They all you a major apology! From what I understand based off of just reading your post, you’re actually taking this pretty well! I would never talk to any of these people ever again.

View Quoted Comment Apparently my sister in law heard my uncle says something bout my husband.
And my 2 brother in law were upset and were wanting to fight him.
No one was hit Bc someone kept them held back.
In process when started I went run in bridal suite telling them to stop the wedding and everyone go home Then my grandmother and I are in there at that moment feeding my daughter a bottle.Well my mother in law comes in wanting to talk to me kinda gave my grandmaw attitude to get out so she can talk. Then my mom eventually comes in and my mom and MIL Start yelling at each other. My cousin made me her and my daughter go in the bridal suite bathroom to be away.
When I came back out all I saw it one of my brother in law being held back my maid of honor and step dad trying to close door and yelling him to stop and leave.
The venue called the cop just Incase a actually fight would be started.
My fiancé believes my uncle was talking crap bout him. But he agrees what his brothers did was wrong and feels awful that I was crying and bout wedding being ruined I got in a fight with my mom day after the wedding. Right now we both right now now are kinda distancing from family right now. I just feel depressed. Everything before that was great ... just last hour of wedding went bad ...

View Quoted Comment But can’t fix nothing bout it now , we will never know what exactly happen because each side has different story.
Right now we just trying remeber the good part of the wedding.

View Quoted Comment It’s disgusting and embarrassing behavior. Just being honest. I don’t care who said what to who. People need to learn to put their feelings aside and deal with it later

View Quoted Comment I wish it would’ve just been left alone but Mainly alcohol fault. But what done is done.

Good grief, is this how both families typically behave? I am so sorry you had to go through this and that they couldn't control themselves on one of the most special days of your life.
I have to agree with DJ, I would not speak to any of these people for a very long time, if ever again. That kind of behavior is shockingly inappropriate, especially the number of people who got involved. Keep your distance and surround yourselves and your daughter with peaceful, loving people who don't immediately jump to physical violence if they hear unkind words.

I can't tell from your posts if you actually were able to get married or not. I am so sorry there was so much stress and immaturity around you at your wedding, and that would indeed be hard to get over quickly. But I hope you were able to at least get married and that you can move past this in time (I don't mean forgive, necessarily, but at least find some peace).

My god. This is horrifying. I am so sorry. These people are horrible. I just...who does this?
I am so sorry.

View Quoted Comment Yes we got married , my husband and I are fine.
Just hurt , and embarrassed.
We started wedding at 6 Wedding got shut down around 9:30. We didn’t have to leave till 10:30 orginally
Thank you