Wedding Day countdown Anxiety!

Ten-fourteen days out, daughter was kind of a mess -- one of her vendors wouldn't return messages, etc. During a routine touch-base with her DJ, whom she loved, he reassured her it was TOTALLY NORMAL to feel that way, but promised her that by the time she was within 7-days, she'd move into a blissful "I don't give a crap anymore" mindset and just enjoy it. He was completely right. Hang in, you're almost there!

I've been there since last week! Ever since I started wrapping up all of the final vendor meetings, I've just felt very at peace with everything. I've put a lot of work into planning and trust our vendors -- the "least experienced" has been around for 10+ years, and at least 3 of our vendors have been in business for 30+ years -- and am so excited to be married. 12 days for me!

Soak in the tub with a glass of wine is a great idea! It's hard not to have everything running through your head constantly. Try making different lists, that might help alleviate the anxiety. If you write down everything you need to take and all that you need to do, you'll see it written down and that way you know you won't forget anything.

I already have moderate-severe anxiety (for about 10 years now...)

BUT we are now 19 days away and I feel like I'm on auto-drive at this point

2 weeks before my wedding I become slightly neurotic! I was running all over the place picking last minute items up, emailing/calling people, etc. Once you hit 4-5 days before the wedding, you will start to calm down because you will realize there really isn't anything left to do. It is a strange feeling lol. Just try to relax and enjoy your last few days of planning. You will miss them when they are over. And take that long bath with your wine. You deserve it! Good luck!