Wedding Date 2/20/2021❤❤

I always try to ask my fiancé for his opinion about stuff. He always says that we can do whatever i want and that he wants me to be happy with everything. But to be honest i would love some help with planning and have a second opinion on some things. So you're not the only one.

I planned most of the wedding myself, but had help with picking the big things, like food, music, venue....all the little girly details were all me! He planned our honeymoon, with my approval of the final choice.

View Quoted Comment It is nice to know that I am not the only one. He feel that it is a natural feeling for guys to feel that way.

View Quoted Comment Ok feeling better about planning the detail decor myself.

I planned most of it myself. I would narrow some things down (like 2-3 photographers, 2-3 Airbnb options, 2-3 cake flavors etc.) and have him choose from there at the end of the night. This way he was involved but he didn’t have to spend all his time on it.


At first he wasn’t too excited about planning but he got more enthusiastic along the way...not as enthusiastic as I was because he just wanted to get married, the how wasn’t as important to him. Most men think differently so be patient; however if you really want help let him know how much that help means to you.

View Quoted Comment Glad to know that. When he saw the planner he almost fainted. He didn't know how much work we have to do. I will be patient men can't handle stress like we can.

I know what you're feeling, the men have little interest in helping, especially anything girly, I'm making almost every decision, and it's very stressful! Good luck Shakerra!

My husband when we were planning was always saying whatever I wanted was fine with him and I think that really just meant for me to decide aha because he didn’t wanna make any decisions